Like I have mentioned in another post, this year, difficult child has a BFF and while it was nice during the summer for her to have someone to spend time with, today has me wondering if there are new problems. We have had to turn off the wifi at 10pm and back on at 6am when we get up - as the first couple nights after school started, easy child told us that difficult child's iPod was beeping off and on all night. Iif someone texts her it beeps and she gets up to text back (at 2, 3, 4am) So this morning, I heard her up and around at 5:30am. I ask her what she is doing up and she tells me she went downstairs to get something to eat, but then her stomach started hurting so she didn't eat. Well, I didn't believe that one but didn't say anything. When I got up I checked the last number called on the caller ID and it was her BFF. Turns out difficult child called her at 5:30 as she wanted to be woke up - and then difficult child was planning to walk to her house at 6:15 so she could help her pick out something to wear to school. School starts at 8am... and it is a 20 minute walk. I am out driving easy child to school at 7:30ish, so she doesn't have to walk. I have offered to pick up BFF and take her to school with us.
After a while, difficult child admitted she got up to call BFF and not to eat something. I think the girls were trying to meet up with a boy or two on the way to school, but they didn't. I did some sleuthing and saw them walking alone about 7:10am towards the school.
easy child said her iPod went off several times during the night... so I wonder if she snuck down and turned the internet back on and then was unplugging it at 5:30 before we got up. Not sure why her ipod would beep during the night - except for when she sets the alarm. I am so tired of the sneaky behavior... but you can never get the truth the first time with her. So now, instead of unplugging the modem, we will have to take it and put in our bedroom. We had been thinking of letting her have the guest bedroom downstairs so we could split up easy child and difficult child. difficult child actually asked to go and see the therapist (who she hadn't seen for over a year) just because the stress of being with her sister at home.
Gee... and difficult child thinks we should trust her enough to let her get her learners permit. NOT! On vacation, in the car, she would actually cover herself with a blanket, hook the seatbelt up behind her, then tuck the blanket around her so she wouldn't be belted in and we wouldn't see it. So it was not the usual, "I forgot" it was a deliberate sneaky act not to follow the rules.
I hate this. KSM
After a while, difficult child admitted she got up to call BFF and not to eat something. I think the girls were trying to meet up with a boy or two on the way to school, but they didn't. I did some sleuthing and saw them walking alone about 7:10am towards the school.
easy child said her iPod went off several times during the night... so I wonder if she snuck down and turned the internet back on and then was unplugging it at 5:30 before we got up. Not sure why her ipod would beep during the night - except for when she sets the alarm. I am so tired of the sneaky behavior... but you can never get the truth the first time with her. So now, instead of unplugging the modem, we will have to take it and put in our bedroom. We had been thinking of letting her have the guest bedroom downstairs so we could split up easy child and difficult child. difficult child actually asked to go and see the therapist (who she hadn't seen for over a year) just because the stress of being with her sister at home.
Gee... and difficult child thinks we should trust her enough to let her get her learners permit. NOT! On vacation, in the car, she would actually cover herself with a blanket, hook the seatbelt up behind her, then tuck the blanket around her so she wouldn't be belted in and we wouldn't see it. So it was not the usual, "I forgot" it was a deliberate sneaky act not to follow the rules.
I hate this. KSM