soooo tonight difficult child fell apart about her sister leaving. i knew it would come just wans't sure when.
so what could i do i held her, told her it's ok to be upset. she was hysterical at one point. easy child never came home again today.
i told her she'll always be your sister, she'll always love you this isn't about you. she has alot of problems and she hopefully will work them out someday. yet you and her will always be sisters.
i emailed easy child thru facebook and said your sister wants to say good bye to you, your being selfish and you should give her that chance. everything isnt about you. she responded by cursing me out repeatedly. so i gotta say i can't give in and get her a cell phone. i will not make this easy on her. i faltered for a second thinking i would.
now i wont.
she's also posting pics on facebook of her "new" home her cooking in their huge huge kitchen in her profile picture. she blocked me from rest of it.
so suffice it to say it's going to be a rough weekend for difficult child and she's spending it with her dad no less.
get this difficult child said about her dad. asked me to relay it to him to start the conversation:
dad unnerves me when i'm with him, he's always so anxious about everything. i'm trying hard in thearpy i even asked him are you anxious too? he said no. mom that's a lie.
she said i dont' like going to his parents house. his dad is weird makes me uncomfortable and uneasy is always asking do you love me do you love me why don't you love me? his dad is weird.
so at 12 the realizations are already forming about her dad which i thought would take years to unfold. she's really very smart.
so i told her you should tell dad. she said i'm afraid to can you relay it and than i'll handle the talk from that point on?
i said sure..... so i text him it politely let's see what he does with it.
thought i'd share
so what could i do i held her, told her it's ok to be upset. she was hysterical at one point. easy child never came home again today.
i told her she'll always be your sister, she'll always love you this isn't about you. she has alot of problems and she hopefully will work them out someday. yet you and her will always be sisters.
i emailed easy child thru facebook and said your sister wants to say good bye to you, your being selfish and you should give her that chance. everything isnt about you. she responded by cursing me out repeatedly. so i gotta say i can't give in and get her a cell phone. i will not make this easy on her. i faltered for a second thinking i would.
now i wont.
she's also posting pics on facebook of her "new" home her cooking in their huge huge kitchen in her profile picture. she blocked me from rest of it.
so suffice it to say it's going to be a rough weekend for difficult child and she's spending it with her dad no less.
get this difficult child said about her dad. asked me to relay it to him to start the conversation:
dad unnerves me when i'm with him, he's always so anxious about everything. i'm trying hard in thearpy i even asked him are you anxious too? he said no. mom that's a lie.
she said i dont' like going to his parents house. his dad is weird makes me uncomfortable and uneasy is always asking do you love me do you love me why don't you love me? his dad is weird.
so at 12 the realizations are already forming about her dad which i thought would take years to unfold. she's really very smart.
so i told her you should tell dad. she said i'm afraid to can you relay it and than i'll handle the talk from that point on?
i said sure..... so i text him it politely let's see what he does with it.
thought i'd share