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uh oh ... heading into a crisis
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 112255" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>It sounds like you have the immediate basics in place regarding safety/self harming/physical aggressive behaviors. It's important that is acted upon immediately & with actions that will make an impact for all concerned & keep all safe.</p><p></p><p>Given that she would be losing phone/computer priviledges, what will replace that in the meantime. How will she fill her time safely & with-o resentment so things don't blow up? How/can she earn those priviledges back? </p><p></p><p>As Susie recommended a behavior contract is a wonderful idea. You have to mean business as does your difficult child.</p><p></p><p>I'd include the general house rules so difficult child doesn't feel "picked on", if you will. There needs to be some way for her to blend in with the family for you to maintain a family relationship.</p><p></p><p>Good luck - keep us updated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 112255, member: 393"] It sounds like you have the immediate basics in place regarding safety/self harming/physical aggressive behaviors. It's important that is acted upon immediately & with actions that will make an impact for all concerned & keep all safe. Given that she would be losing phone/computer priviledges, what will replace that in the meantime. How will she fill her time safely & with-o resentment so things don't blow up? How/can she earn those priviledges back? As Susie recommended a behavior contract is a wonderful idea. You have to mean business as does your difficult child. I'd include the general house rules so difficult child doesn't feel "picked on", if you will. There needs to be some way for her to blend in with the family for you to maintain a family relationship. Good luck - keep us updated. [/QUOTE]
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