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uh oh ... heading into a crisis
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<blockquote data-quote="myfirstandlast" data-source="post: 112761" data-attributes="member: 3420"><p>Yeah, it has been days and days of crying for all of us. I'm glad we didn't have to go with the worst case scenario ... but we were prepared to.</p><p></p><p>Okay, so I'm not going to share this with her bio-mom right away like I planned, although I think in time I'll share this site because I think it will help her ... but I'm concerned that she will back out of our agreement to try and "save face" with her daughter, like she did last time. She can't take her daughter being angry with her, wants to be the good guy, and get her out of having to move in with us. </p><p></p><p>If she caves, and DSD gets her way AGAIN, there is nothing we can do about her being home alone over an hour away ... no way to keep her from the people she claims to be doing drugs and drinking with ... no way to monitor phone and internet. To me, it would be like doing nothing but showing her once again that she manipulates the show. :smirk:</p><p></p><p>I love her, more than I knew I did. There are so many issues to deal with, all brought to light so suddenly ... and those that have been simmering in between blow-outs. I told the psychiatric at our intake appointment that we are ALL conflict avoiders, that nothing happens unless we are IN a crisis.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="myfirstandlast, post: 112761, member: 3420"] Yeah, it has been days and days of crying for all of us. I'm glad we didn't have to go with the worst case scenario ... but we were prepared to. Okay, so I'm not going to share this with her bio-mom right away like I planned, although I think in time I'll share this site because I think it will help her ... but I'm concerned that she will back out of our agreement to try and "save face" with her daughter, like she did last time. She can't take her daughter being angry with her, wants to be the good guy, and get her out of having to move in with us. If she caves, and DSD gets her way AGAIN, there is nothing we can do about her being home alone over an hour away ... no way to keep her from the people she claims to be doing drugs and drinking with ... no way to monitor phone and internet. To me, it would be like doing nothing but showing her once again that she manipulates the show. [img]:smirk:[/img] I love her, more than I knew I did. There are so many issues to deal with, all brought to light so suddenly ... and those that have been simmering in between blow-outs. I told the psychiatric at our intake appointment that we are ALL conflict avoiders, that nothing happens unless we are IN a crisis. [/QUOTE]
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