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<blockquote data-quote="myfirstandlast" data-source="post: 112904" data-attributes="member: 3420"><p>Good second meeting. The psychiatric talked to her alone first, and then to both of us. She is charming and cooperative. He is seeing her good side. We all know it is the calm before the storm ... the honeymoon period in the cycle of abuse ... and when we restate that she will be moving in with us and changing schools (which the psychiatric firmly supports) the bomb will explode.</p><p></p><p>My big concern right now is her mom backing out of the deal because she can't stand up to her daughter, or caves to the crying/begging. (If you look at my past posts, we did all of this in late summer. Except therapy.)</p><p></p><p>My husband is going to the county courthouse to get a copy of his custody arrangement and to hopefully find out what he needs to do to switch physical custody from mom to him. He may not be able to do this with his daughter present. And the mom may change her mind, and not agree. Which leaves ... court? </p><p></p><p>Have to see what I can find out about changing schools without missing much class, if any. No one in the offices until Monday when classes start, to my knowledge.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for the support, all. I realize this is STILL the calm before the storm.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="myfirstandlast, post: 112904, member: 3420"] Good second meeting. The psychiatric talked to her alone first, and then to both of us. She is charming and cooperative. He is seeing her good side. We all know it is the calm before the storm ... the honeymoon period in the cycle of abuse ... and when we restate that she will be moving in with us and changing schools (which the psychiatric firmly supports) the bomb will explode. My big concern right now is her mom backing out of the deal because she can't stand up to her daughter, or caves to the crying/begging. (If you look at my past posts, we did all of this in late summer. Except therapy.) My husband is going to the county courthouse to get a copy of his custody arrangement and to hopefully find out what he needs to do to switch physical custody from mom to him. He may not be able to do this with his daughter present. And the mom may change her mind, and not agree. Which leaves ... court? Have to see what I can find out about changing schools without missing much class, if any. No one in the offices until Monday when classes start, to my knowledge. Thanks for the support, all. I realize this is STILL the calm before the storm. [/QUOTE]
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