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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 258364" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Sorry I am comming in late I was away a couple of days. Anyway, You are doing well by detching. You do not need to do anything for him. If you do and it doesn't work out he will blame it all on you again instead of taking responsibility for himself and his choices. He can go to the county office anytime and tell them he is ready to get into a detox. After he completes that program he can probably get into a group home or a sober house. There are SW's that are usually assigned at intake and who can help him with all of this.</p><p> </p><p>You need to go on with your life and let him get his together. It is his life his journey now and even though it isn't a pretty one it is his alone to change. </p><p> </p><p>Use your 12 steps to get through each crisis and keep your life moving foward. It truly does get easier the more you practice detachment. Trust yourself and your higher power and live your life as you would if he was not on drugs and acting badly. You can do this and you can change your reactions. You cannot change him though, so stop trying to find a way it just isn't possible. That has to come from inside him. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 258364, member: 2315"] Sorry I am comming in late I was away a couple of days. Anyway, You are doing well by detching. You do not need to do anything for him. If you do and it doesn't work out he will blame it all on you again instead of taking responsibility for himself and his choices. He can go to the county office anytime and tell them he is ready to get into a detox. After he completes that program he can probably get into a group home or a sober house. There are SW's that are usually assigned at intake and who can help him with all of this. You need to go on with your life and let him get his together. It is his life his journey now and even though it isn't a pretty one it is his alone to change. Use your 12 steps to get through each crisis and keep your life moving foward. It truly does get easier the more you practice detachment. Trust yourself and your higher power and live your life as you would if he was not on drugs and acting badly. You can do this and you can change your reactions. You cannot change him though, so stop trying to find a way it just isn't possible. That has to come from inside him. -RM [/QUOTE]
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