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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 461568" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Lisa, sweetie. I felt so many of the emotions you're feeling right now. Please, please, please, do not take husband's belongings too far away too soon. In a few months you may want feel close to him. Put them in a storage container if you need to ~ it's just too soon for removing that part of your husband.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">It's amazing how much I could hold onto my husband thru his jackets ~ I could still smell him.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Do you remember how angry I was? I couldn't find passwords, paperwork, etc after my husband died ~ I was livid. Mostly I was hurt that husband didn't confide those things to me.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">When you are ready there are a couple of books I might recommend. I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye is an exceptional read & it's helped me immensely. The other book is called The Death of a Husband. This book hit home for me ~ allowed me to cry, to help me thru the anger. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Sweetie, you & yours are in my prayers. All those emotions will strike you time & again. I'm almost 3 years out & I feel so lost many days. I feel angry others & just plain sad. There is no real pattern to grief nor is there a time line. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">If you need to talk, sweetie, pm me your number & I'll give you a call. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 461568, member: 393"] [SIZE=2]Lisa, sweetie. I felt so many of the emotions you're feeling right now. Please, please, please, do not take husband's belongings too far away too soon. In a few months you may want feel close to him. Put them in a storage container if you need to ~ it's just too soon for removing that part of your husband. It's amazing how much I could hold onto my husband thru his jackets ~ I could still smell him. Do you remember how angry I was? I couldn't find passwords, paperwork, etc after my husband died ~ I was livid. Mostly I was hurt that husband didn't confide those things to me. When you are ready there are a couple of books I might recommend. I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye is an exceptional read & it's helped me immensely. The other book is called The Death of a Husband. This book hit home for me ~ allowed me to cry, to help me thru the anger. Sweetie, you & yours are in my prayers. All those emotions will strike you time & again. I'm almost 3 years out & I feel so lost many days. I feel angry others & just plain sad. There is no real pattern to grief nor is there a time line. If you need to talk, sweetie, pm me your number & I'll give you a call. [/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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