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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 653361" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>When husband and I began "actively detaching", I received several emails from difficult child that said "Love me for who I am....or not"/"Accept me for who I am....or don't", and perhaps another variation or two.</p><p></p><p>husband pointed out one day...<em>OK, difficult child is trying to guilt us with these words yet he cannot see doing this for us?</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>difficult child expected us to totally support him as he was, as in <strong>keep sending money</strong>. Nowhere in his thinking was he giving us what he wanted. It was a one-way street...again, <strong>keep sending money. </strong>Not supporting him financially = not loving him for who he was. (jobless, using spice, hateful)</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 653361, member: 17635"] When husband and I began "actively detaching", I received several emails from difficult child that said "Love me for who I am....or not"/"Accept me for who I am....or don't", and perhaps another variation or two. husband pointed out one day...[I]OK, difficult child is trying to guilt us with these words yet he cannot see doing this for us? [/I] difficult child expected us to totally support him as he was, as in [B]keep sending money[/B]. Nowhere in his thinking was he giving us what he wanted. It was a one-way street...again, [B]keep sending money. [/B]Not supporting him financially = not loving him for who he was. (jobless, using spice, hateful) [B][/B] Hugs, SS [/QUOTE]
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