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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 676183" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>Thank you all for your feedback. Your words have helped tremendously. I kind of get it that this is part of the cycle and there will be cycles of emotion to go through in regards to my Difficult Child </p><p></p><p>It has only been since September since Difficult Child was no longer living with us, maybe part of the reason I am cycling through some things so fast is because of all the stuff that went on in our home before Difficult Child left: verbal abuse on a regular basis just about daily, stealing anything and everything, lying, threatening harm to us and the house.</p><p></p><p>The emotions are definitely there as I found out today - Difficult Child called we did not answer - Difficult Child came to house hubby and 1st born talked to Difficult Child gave him some food, Difficult Child wanted to see me, I talked to him, he told me he loved me gave me a hug and left. All took place outside and last only a few minutes. I came back in and was already crying, 1st born just put me in a huge hug pointed out that Difficult Child told him he had place to go today to stay warm. </p><p></p><p>It is what it is - I am beginning to see that as you all have said the roller coaster eventually begins to slow a bit and the sharp edges become a little softer - it hasn't happened yet, but I have been going through emotional cycles so to speak just as I have been reading about on this site. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all so much for your caring and support. </p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p><p></p><p>Hopeful</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 676183, member: 19678"] Thank you all for your feedback. Your words have helped tremendously. I kind of get it that this is part of the cycle and there will be cycles of emotion to go through in regards to my Difficult Child It has only been since September since Difficult Child was no longer living with us, maybe part of the reason I am cycling through some things so fast is because of all the stuff that went on in our home before Difficult Child left: verbal abuse on a regular basis just about daily, stealing anything and everything, lying, threatening harm to us and the house. The emotions are definitely there as I found out today - Difficult Child called we did not answer - Difficult Child came to house hubby and 1st born talked to Difficult Child gave him some food, Difficult Child wanted to see me, I talked to him, he told me he loved me gave me a hug and left. All took place outside and last only a few minutes. I came back in and was already crying, 1st born just put me in a huge hug pointed out that Difficult Child told him he had place to go today to stay warm. It is what it is - I am beginning to see that as you all have said the roller coaster eventually begins to slow a bit and the sharp edges become a little softer - it hasn't happened yet, but I have been going through emotional cycles so to speak just as I have been reading about on this site. Thank you all so much for your caring and support. :group-hug: Hopeful [/QUOTE]
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