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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 761512" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I think you did the right thing by telling your husband. I think the only thing you can do now is explain that you felt it unbearable to face Christmas day without sending the money to your son and at the same time you felt it unbearable to ruin your husband's Christmas by telling him. Just tell him exactly as you told us. And let it settle and give him time. </p><p></p><p>Personally, I think your husband is overreacting a bit, describing what you did as a betrayal although it may have been impulsive and hidden. Parents have a right, I think, to be individual people too. You tried to protect your husband not to hurt him. And then you came clean. However, I wouldn't tell him this. I'd keep it to myself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 761512, member: 18958"] I think you did the right thing by telling your husband. I think the only thing you can do now is explain that you felt it unbearable to face Christmas day without sending the money to your son and at the same time you felt it unbearable to ruin your husband's Christmas by telling him. Just tell him exactly as you told us. And let it settle and give him time. Personally, I think your husband is overreacting a bit, describing what you did as a betrayal although it may have been impulsive and hidden. Parents have a right, I think, to be individual people too. You tried to protect your husband not to hurt him. And then you came clean. However, I wouldn't tell him this. I'd keep it to myself. [/QUOTE]
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