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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 749895" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I've missed you all too Copa. I've wondered what's been going on. I'll have to do some reading to try to brush up.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Oh we have NO plans to offer a place to stay. I'm more than willing to act as Real Estate Agent and look at places for them, but co-signing is a BIG no, loaning money is a BIG no, and living with us is a HUGE no! I told him he'd never live with us again and I meant it. Staying, short-term, until they find an apartment??? We'll have to think about that - IF they ask. Right now, we're trying not to and we won't offer - that's for sure.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I fully intend to with him. Maybe her too. Haven't decided. Mostly I'm waiting until he's had his "surgery" and is feeling a bit better. Kidney stones are not fun.</p><p></p><p>As you said, Yes, I feel this. Her parents have taken them in twice now (though this last time they've never mentioned the step-father and I wonder if he's even in the picture). I don't know what her expectations are of us...she's Mexican, raised here since 6 months old, but still Mexican. That's actually a question too...she got a green card through her mother at 6 months old. What does that mean now that she's 21 and moved out on her own?</p><p></p><p>Again...I suppose not my problem, but I like this young lady.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I actually asked her about this - she said he wouldn't apply for benefits because he can work; that he wants to work...but still...He's NOT disabled, he's sick. He'll get over the kidney stone and eventually they'll figure out the colitis. He'll be over the kidney stone before they move here. Colitis he'll have to learn to live with. I don't know Colorado, but there's no public benefits in MO for short-term illnesses. You have to be totally and permanently disabled for a year. We did away with the General Relief program totally about 10 years ago.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/dead.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dead:" title="dead :dead:" data-shortname=":dead:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 749895, member: 17309"] I've missed you all too Copa. I've wondered what's been going on. I'll have to do some reading to try to brush up. Oh we have NO plans to offer a place to stay. I'm more than willing to act as Real Estate Agent and look at places for them, but co-signing is a BIG no, loaning money is a BIG no, and living with us is a HUGE no! I told him he'd never live with us again and I meant it. Staying, short-term, until they find an apartment??? We'll have to think about that - IF they ask. Right now, we're trying not to and we won't offer - that's for sure. I fully intend to with him. Maybe her too. Haven't decided. Mostly I'm waiting until he's had his "surgery" and is feeling a bit better. Kidney stones are not fun. As you said, Yes, I feel this. Her parents have taken them in twice now (though this last time they've never mentioned the step-father and I wonder if he's even in the picture). I don't know what her expectations are of us...she's Mexican, raised here since 6 months old, but still Mexican. That's actually a question too...she got a green card through her mother at 6 months old. What does that mean now that she's 21 and moved out on her own? Again...I suppose not my problem, but I like this young lady. I actually asked her about this - she said he wouldn't apply for benefits because he can work; that he wants to work...but still...He's NOT disabled, he's sick. He'll get over the kidney stone and eventually they'll figure out the colitis. He'll be over the kidney stone before they move here. Colitis he'll have to learn to live with. I don't know Colorado, but there's no public benefits in MO for short-term illnesses. You have to be totally and permanently disabled for a year. We did away with the General Relief program totally about 10 years ago. :dead: [/QUOTE]
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