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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 381190" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>And this is the key and something that is and will always be speicifc and personal- not to be shared with everyone, not even you. This is the importance of a good treatment program and letting her be in misery for a while, supported, writing it out, etc. It helps her work thru mental processes that she wouldn't be able to work thru otherwise. They know what they are doing there. Just stand back and let it go. It isn't always going to be one accomplishment right after another- it's a process that is very difficult and emotional, as well as rewarding. I would be more worried about her if she seemed to be gliding thru it- it's a bad sign when it appears that way. Kind of like someone who's supposed to be on a diet- if it always seems easy to them and they seem so happy about it all the time, it makes a person wonder if they are really sticking with it, Know what I mean?? Rehab is hard- not because it's supposed to be a punishment (albeit courts people don't get that) - it's hard because it pulls at everything inside a person and that is why it is so personal and recommended not to ever reveal all that to the people in your life- so take take it personal if she doesn't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 381190, member: 3699"] And this is the key and something that is and will always be speicifc and personal- not to be shared with everyone, not even you. This is the importance of a good treatment program and letting her be in misery for a while, supported, writing it out, etc. It helps her work thru mental processes that she wouldn't be able to work thru otherwise. They know what they are doing there. Just stand back and let it go. It isn't always going to be one accomplishment right after another- it's a process that is very difficult and emotional, as well as rewarding. I would be more worried about her if she seemed to be gliding thru it- it's a bad sign when it appears that way. Kind of like someone who's supposed to be on a diet- if it always seems easy to them and they seem so happy about it all the time, it makes a person wonder if they are really sticking with it, Know what I mean?? Rehab is hard- not because it's supposed to be a punishment (albeit courts people don't get that) - it's hard because it pulls at everything inside a person and that is why it is so personal and recommended not to ever reveal all that to the people in your life- so take take it personal if she doesn't. [/QUOTE]
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