I haven't been around for a while but wanted to give update. Last time I was here ex husband was not allowing difficult child to talk to me or visit. And I had been denied by the courts to have visitation. Well my difficult child called me a wk before his 18th birthday telling me he had been living here there and on the streets for 2 wks. He didn't call me bc he didn't think I would let him come back to my house. I took him in, on his birthday he switched schools and things were great....for a while. However, "I'm 18" started and I had to keep telling difficult child I didn't care if he was 30, as long as he lived under my roof, he would follow my rules. He was here for 4 months. Through this time I suspected him lieing about his whereabouts, actions and suspected him shoplifting. I would talk to him, he would swear he wasn't and we would go on. Mid January is when he left, well he was made to leave my home. We had an argument, I took his phone only to find out he was doing drugs and was trying to have them delivered to my house. I was extremely mad! I confronted him and of course he got upset but never denied it at that time. I tried to push door open with my hand and difficult child stopped door with his body. difficult child said, "You assaulted me and I will have you arrested!" (Most of you will remember that difficult child had me locked up by filing false charges on me in Jan 2009. I became enraged and told him that he would not file false charges on me and have me locked up again. I told difficult child to pack his **** and get the **** out of my house. I would not have him in my house even making threats like that. I told difficult child if he wanted to call police, go ahead..."ur 18 now with a history, ur 6'8" and im 5'8" with a innocent verdict on the only charge I have ever rec'd. Not too mention I AM PREGNANT!" Yep, I said it...I found out on Dec 27, I am pregnant expecting Labor Day!!! difficult child left and I have not seen him since. I have only text with him through someone else's IPOD. He moved in with-a friend whose mom buys her drugs and allows her to do them. The girl is 15 and is also a difficult child. I am not happy with the situation but he is 18 and I cant stop him from living there. I only hope that he straightens up before it is too late. Not too mention he has been sexually active with this young girl as well. I want to thank everyone for their continued support even when there have been gaps in my visits to the board. This is a wonderful place and I am sure I will be around.