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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 472388" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Well, I tried to bring him mc donalds this afternoon but he just couldn't stop from blurting out inappropriate things at me, he threw crayons toward me (not to hurt but just mad). so he asked for it again and I said no it is against the rules if you are not in green zone. So then he called me between visiting times and asked again. I said sure, I will come to see him, we will try again and then I will get it. I had it in my car...went in and he barely tolerated me in the room. he gave me a stiff hug and said to go get it. It was an improvement so I got it...they said he was mostly ok all day. So, I got it and gave it to him. he said he missed NASCAR because of me and he hates me. He said he doesn't care about anything anymore and he asked again why I just didn't hold him like I used to when he got mad. I tried to explain and he just threw the kleenex box at me. So, I left. I didn't want to trigger an outburst. He has nearly lost his voice from the screamming episode yesterday. He still has marker all over his face. </p><p>A nurse there finally asked me about him and didn't just talk at me. I shocked myself, I couldn't talk. i just bawled. still cant stop. I think the fatigue finally hit. He said I could take a break and not come....I said no way. He already has attachment issues. No way he is going to test me like that and find out that I would leave him. So, I drive 40 mintues there for a 5 minute peek to know he is okay...that is fine with me. </p><p></p><p>Good thing I didn't let that doctor give him depakote. Turns out he was already on it back when he was little. we took him off it because he wasn't having seizures anymore we thought...and it seemed to irritate him. He was better off of it. THAT is why I wanted to wait till the team was together. I know he was on Keppra too. </p><p></p><p>My sister reminded me that when she was a teen she got depressed and she called my mom from the hospital and told her she hated her too. HE is so scared and that is his tough talk. He is plotting his revenge...sigh. I told them we are really going to have to do a time line for cause and effect and a social story to discuss our family rules and what my job is and what his job is. (mine is to keep him safe! His is to be safe....we will make it much more concrete obviously, smile) he is so mad, I dont know how he will get un-stuck from this one. I have never ever seen him so scared and upset.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 472388, member: 12886"] Well, I tried to bring him mc donalds this afternoon but he just couldn't stop from blurting out inappropriate things at me, he threw crayons toward me (not to hurt but just mad). so he asked for it again and I said no it is against the rules if you are not in green zone. So then he called me between visiting times and asked again. I said sure, I will come to see him, we will try again and then I will get it. I had it in my car...went in and he barely tolerated me in the room. he gave me a stiff hug and said to go get it. It was an improvement so I got it...they said he was mostly ok all day. So, I got it and gave it to him. he said he missed NASCAR because of me and he hates me. He said he doesn't care about anything anymore and he asked again why I just didn't hold him like I used to when he got mad. I tried to explain and he just threw the kleenex box at me. So, I left. I didn't want to trigger an outburst. He has nearly lost his voice from the screamming episode yesterday. He still has marker all over his face. A nurse there finally asked me about him and didn't just talk at me. I shocked myself, I couldn't talk. i just bawled. still cant stop. I think the fatigue finally hit. He said I could take a break and not come....I said no way. He already has attachment issues. No way he is going to test me like that and find out that I would leave him. So, I drive 40 mintues there for a 5 minute peek to know he is okay...that is fine with me. Good thing I didn't let that doctor give him depakote. Turns out he was already on it back when he was little. we took him off it because he wasn't having seizures anymore we thought...and it seemed to irritate him. He was better off of it. THAT is why I wanted to wait till the team was together. I know he was on Keppra too. My sister reminded me that when she was a teen she got depressed and she called my mom from the hospital and told her she hated her too. HE is so scared and that is his tough talk. He is plotting his revenge...sigh. I told them we are really going to have to do a time line for cause and effect and a social story to discuss our family rules and what my job is and what his job is. (mine is to keep him safe! His is to be safe....we will make it much more concrete obviously, smile) he is so mad, I dont know how he will get un-stuck from this one. I have never ever seen him so scared and upset. [/QUOTE]
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