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<blockquote data-quote="gwenny" data-source="post: 251149" data-attributes="member: 6852"><p>I didnt and don't take things said on the boards as any kind of attack as we are all in difficult situations and trying to do the best we can. If I can learn anything that can help difficult child that is our goal. So many things I guess could be a possiblity and with the advise and suggestions from everyone it just feels overwhelming to hear some things but most important how if this is overwhelming to hear how must difficult child feel if he has experienced any of the sexual abuse and never told. Thank you all for sharing your experiences with me as I know this was and is still a difficult experience for all of you who have been there.</p><p></p><p></p><p>We are not sure of anything that difficult child has done as we are just learning of alot of the disgusting behaviors now. My husband told me of that one of his ex-wifes friend and her husband. husband stated that they were having a little get together and the friend had a niece over from out of town for the summer. husband says the friends husband was playing tag or some kind of game that would require him to catch her... Well my husband never felt comfortable with that situation as the husband seemed to always grab her around the breast area or buttox area. </p><p></p><p>The girl that this happened to ran away from their home.. Now I brought this up to husband and he's so overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions that if this is a possability it has totally devestated him. He said it's something to mention on saturday with the counselor. We just want a professional to handle on these possabilitys because asking difficult child could give him some more ideas to say as he only has one goal and that is to get home to his mother. He has told sherriffs that husband beat him ( which later he confessed to multiple stories) which had CPS or the sherriff beleived that lie husband could have been arrested, so I dont want to put any ideas in his head that he can cause serious havoc. </p><p></p><p>Omg I cannot believe all of this. How could we have missed this if that is the cause. </p><p></p><p>wow I am just so floored as to think what difficult child had to endure without any help from anyone of us. I jsut pray that we are getting him the help that he needs now.</p><p></p><p>I do feel that if he has to come home until he can be placed in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or Group home he would seriously try to do something as he feels that this is a punishment to him, and difficult children not seeing that we are trying to get help for him. I will have to have him and difficult child leave or vise virsa.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Oh and also the wonderful mom stated to us that she was aware of the antisocial personality disorder budding. What was she really thinking when she didnt want to inform us of this info. I don't know what goes on throught that womans head..URRR The objective to having difficult child live with us was that his father and I could help him with his problems. Which has not been easy as she never gave us any info until now. This could have been handled with the first hospitalization and now we just basically wasted 5 months of therapy because the therapist and us were unaware of the prostitution, violence towards the mother, breaking and entry..</p><p></p><p>I guess there is no time to deal with the whys and just pick ourselves up and keep pushing forward.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gwenny, post: 251149, member: 6852"] I didnt and don't take things said on the boards as any kind of attack as we are all in difficult situations and trying to do the best we can. If I can learn anything that can help difficult child that is our goal. So many things I guess could be a possiblity and with the advise and suggestions from everyone it just feels overwhelming to hear some things but most important how if this is overwhelming to hear how must difficult child feel if he has experienced any of the sexual abuse and never told. Thank you all for sharing your experiences with me as I know this was and is still a difficult experience for all of you who have been there. We are not sure of anything that difficult child has done as we are just learning of alot of the disgusting behaviors now. My husband told me of that one of his ex-wifes friend and her husband. husband stated that they were having a little get together and the friend had a niece over from out of town for the summer. husband says the friends husband was playing tag or some kind of game that would require him to catch her... Well my husband never felt comfortable with that situation as the husband seemed to always grab her around the breast area or buttox area. The girl that this happened to ran away from their home.. Now I brought this up to husband and he's so overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions that if this is a possability it has totally devestated him. He said it's something to mention on saturday with the counselor. We just want a professional to handle on these possabilitys because asking difficult child could give him some more ideas to say as he only has one goal and that is to get home to his mother. He has told sherriffs that husband beat him ( which later he confessed to multiple stories) which had CPS or the sherriff beleived that lie husband could have been arrested, so I dont want to put any ideas in his head that he can cause serious havoc. Omg I cannot believe all of this. How could we have missed this if that is the cause. wow I am just so floored as to think what difficult child had to endure without any help from anyone of us. I jsut pray that we are getting him the help that he needs now. I do feel that if he has to come home until he can be placed in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or Group home he would seriously try to do something as he feels that this is a punishment to him, and difficult children not seeing that we are trying to get help for him. I will have to have him and difficult child leave or vise virsa. Oh and also the wonderful mom stated to us that she was aware of the antisocial personality disorder budding. What was she really thinking when she didnt want to inform us of this info. I don't know what goes on throught that womans head..URRR The objective to having difficult child live with us was that his father and I could help him with his problems. Which has not been easy as she never gave us any info until now. This could have been handled with the first hospitalization and now we just basically wasted 5 months of therapy because the therapist and us were unaware of the prostitution, violence towards the mother, breaking and entry.. I guess there is no time to deal with the whys and just pick ourselves up and keep pushing forward. [/QUOTE]
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