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Update on difficult child's Status- Very Long
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 478886" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>wow, what a huge liability for them, they dont have an alarm system on the windows/doors after a certain time? Geeze, there are group homes I have worked in with mild mannered daughter individuals where we had to stay awake at night, that is just not a hard thing to provide. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>For a very different reason (my son got into an agitated, aggressive, non compliant pattern following one visit with a doctor that then stuck, even without the trigger for the first time, making every doctor appointment HECK) I ended up scheduling his male Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker for every doctor appointment. He helped us break the pattern and start a new one and now we do it without Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers and it goes well. </p><p></p><p>But the scheduling issue is similar... So, I went with Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) schedule since doctor was more flexible in this case. I only scheduled the doctor appointments for when Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker was available. It was life changing. (And the point of it being the "right" mentor...I tried to substitute another Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker, also a male, but it was not the right one....he was fired later anyway for many reasons, not just my difficult child but you are right, they need consistency and a certain level of trust/admiration for the worker/mentor)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 478886, member: 12886"] wow, what a huge liability for them, they dont have an alarm system on the windows/doors after a certain time? Geeze, there are group homes I have worked in with mild mannered daughter individuals where we had to stay awake at night, that is just not a hard thing to provide. For a very different reason (my son got into an agitated, aggressive, non compliant pattern following one visit with a doctor that then stuck, even without the trigger for the first time, making every doctor appointment HECK) I ended up scheduling his male Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker for every doctor appointment. He helped us break the pattern and start a new one and now we do it without Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers and it goes well. But the scheduling issue is similar... So, I went with Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) schedule since doctor was more flexible in this case. I only scheduled the doctor appointments for when Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker was available. It was life changing. (And the point of it being the "right" mentor...I tried to substitute another Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker, also a male, but it was not the right one....he was fired later anyway for many reasons, not just my difficult child but you are right, they need consistency and a certain level of trust/admiration for the worker/mentor) [/QUOTE]
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