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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 229186" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Thank you everyone. The last 48 hours have been nonstop phone calls; a roller coaster of emotions. As kt left for respite it hit me just how angry I am right now. All of this chaos over a bottle of whiskey ~ a 6 pack of beer. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">My brother in law & sister in law went to the hotel where husband was living to pick up his things & bring his car home. The manager had inventoried husband's things & promised the car wouldn't be towed until we came to pick up husband's belongings. brother in law & sister in law had just missed the tow truck. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">As I was trying to put husband's things away I could tell he was ill long before he entered the hospital; I had to stop right then & there.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">That was it - I fell apart. Too many things - too many directions. No clear answers or end in sight. Good or bad. Nothing.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I'm so glad kt is out to respite this weekend; I need the time alone to process. I need to talk, I need to cry or get angry with-o worrying over kt's emotional response to seeing mama totally falling apart.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">After I'd settled down a bit, kt called from respite wanting to be picked up. She was definitely agitated. I reminded her of her self calming plan & asked respite staff to offer her PRN medications. Let me know if things escalated. Appararently it hadn't - I heard nothing.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">A friend I used to work with is taking me to the impound lot to pick up husband's car. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Each & everyone of you are my rock right now. I feel very isolated even though there are 3 or 4 people here in town pitching in to help. The majority of it is falling on my shoulders - I'll handle it; I pray I get some kind of break when all is said & done. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">May this be over soon.....</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Indigo"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 229186, member: 393"] [COLOR=Indigo][SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Thank you everyone. The last 48 hours have been nonstop phone calls; a roller coaster of emotions. As kt left for respite it hit me just how angry I am right now. All of this chaos over a bottle of whiskey ~ a 6 pack of beer. My brother in law & sister in law went to the hotel where husband was living to pick up his things & bring his car home. The manager had inventoried husband's things & promised the car wouldn't be towed until we came to pick up husband's belongings. brother in law & sister in law had just missed the tow truck. As I was trying to put husband's things away I could tell he was ill long before he entered the hospital; I had to stop right then & there. That was it - I fell apart. Too many things - too many directions. No clear answers or end in sight. Good or bad. Nothing. I'm so glad kt is out to respite this weekend; I need the time alone to process. I need to talk, I need to cry or get angry with-o worrying over kt's emotional response to seeing mama totally falling apart. After I'd settled down a bit, kt called from respite wanting to be picked up. She was definitely agitated. I reminded her of her self calming plan & asked respite staff to offer her PRN medications. Let me know if things escalated. Appararently it hadn't - I heard nothing. A friend I used to work with is taking me to the impound lot to pick up husband's car. Each & everyone of you are my rock right now. I feel very isolated even though there are 3 or 4 people here in town pitching in to help. The majority of it is falling on my shoulders - I'll handle it; I pray I get some kind of break when all is said & done. May this be over soon..... [/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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