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DavidH
Guest
Hello folks..
Well I am up too early once again, this not sleeping is really getting to me... Dr. Has me on Ambian but it is worthless to me.. I have no problem falling asleep now around 9 to 9.30 PM I am falling asleep in my recliner, I get up and get in bed.. and fall asleep fine.. but as normal I am up way to early - Last night I made it till 10.24pm making myself stay up (even got a chocolate bar at 9.45pm to try and wake me up) I did however make it sleeping till 4.01am, then I must of fell back asleep as next time I looked at clock it was 4.55am.. and of course could not go back to sleep...
Anyone know if there is some kind of natural thing that may help? I am so tired of all the medications.
ANYHOW
Someone finally got it about a trick I tried with Justin when he was little...
He has been stuck on his current level now for a while at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC), he is doing great but they have a point system and each week he loses enough points to make him miss hitting that next level, it is all little things, like not tying shoes fast enough, walking along the trails with the group and he sees a deer or other animal and he says out loud "Look!" or he gets a "callback" meaning maybe he missed an area he was to clean or did not clean it up to standards, or even if the group does not line up in line fast enough... thins like this..
Well they had a meeting last week, and decided that Justin is doing great except these little bitty things... and wanted to help him stay motivated.. they said he loses about ten mini points a day ( hard to explain in writing, they have two levels of points, mini ones and regular points)
So what they did is give him 70 beads (yep those colorful ones) and each time he loses a mini point he has to hand a bead over to the counselor. Well they did this Tuesday of last week at the treatment team meeting.. and was told if he had any beads left at the next treatment team meeting he would earn his group a special pass for free time for all the boys, (phew pressure!!!) as of Friday at 5.30pm when I found out and got my weekly update from our therapist he had lost ONLY 4 beads.... ........ WOW from ten a day lost down to only 1 a day (as of Friday) absolutely amazing...
I have tried to get teachers to understand for years, he is physical give him something he can see and touch as a reward like, you keep this up for 15 Min's and you get a sticker... ect ect..
I will hear on Wednesday if he earns his next level... and it is a big one... and a hard one to earn... we also have family day this coming Saturday he has already been approved for a home pass for 24 hours, this silly kid said he does not want to use it till family day that way I can come up and have family day at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) and then we come home, this way daddy I get to spend more than 24 hours with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God it is good to be loved - silly thing is if he gets his next level Tuesday he will also by getting that earn up to 8 more hours on the pass that he does not know about yet!! (I think)
Only other thing is I have asked the counselor to find out what we should do in regards to dealing with the issue of zero mom in his life, I feel it is a large part of where his anger was coming from, and she still has not responded to him writing her two letters in Jan. 08 ... Therapist said she will talk to people and find out what is going to be the best way to go about this.... ugggg
Well I am up too early once again, this not sleeping is really getting to me... Dr. Has me on Ambian but it is worthless to me.. I have no problem falling asleep now around 9 to 9.30 PM I am falling asleep in my recliner, I get up and get in bed.. and fall asleep fine.. but as normal I am up way to early - Last night I made it till 10.24pm making myself stay up (even got a chocolate bar at 9.45pm to try and wake me up) I did however make it sleeping till 4.01am, then I must of fell back asleep as next time I looked at clock it was 4.55am.. and of course could not go back to sleep...
Anyone know if there is some kind of natural thing that may help? I am so tired of all the medications.
ANYHOW
Someone finally got it about a trick I tried with Justin when he was little...
He has been stuck on his current level now for a while at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC), he is doing great but they have a point system and each week he loses enough points to make him miss hitting that next level, it is all little things, like not tying shoes fast enough, walking along the trails with the group and he sees a deer or other animal and he says out loud "Look!" or he gets a "callback" meaning maybe he missed an area he was to clean or did not clean it up to standards, or even if the group does not line up in line fast enough... thins like this..
Well they had a meeting last week, and decided that Justin is doing great except these little bitty things... and wanted to help him stay motivated.. they said he loses about ten mini points a day ( hard to explain in writing, they have two levels of points, mini ones and regular points)
So what they did is give him 70 beads (yep those colorful ones) and each time he loses a mini point he has to hand a bead over to the counselor. Well they did this Tuesday of last week at the treatment team meeting.. and was told if he had any beads left at the next treatment team meeting he would earn his group a special pass for free time for all the boys, (phew pressure!!!) as of Friday at 5.30pm when I found out and got my weekly update from our therapist he had lost ONLY 4 beads.... ........ WOW from ten a day lost down to only 1 a day (as of Friday) absolutely amazing...
I have tried to get teachers to understand for years, he is physical give him something he can see and touch as a reward like, you keep this up for 15 Min's and you get a sticker... ect ect..
I will hear on Wednesday if he earns his next level... and it is a big one... and a hard one to earn... we also have family day this coming Saturday he has already been approved for a home pass for 24 hours, this silly kid said he does not want to use it till family day that way I can come up and have family day at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) and then we come home, this way daddy I get to spend more than 24 hours with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God it is good to be loved - silly thing is if he gets his next level Tuesday he will also by getting that earn up to 8 more hours on the pass that he does not know about yet!! (I think)
Only other thing is I have asked the counselor to find out what we should do in regards to dealing with the issue of zero mom in his life, I feel it is a large part of where his anger was coming from, and she still has not responded to him writing her two letters in Jan. 08 ... Therapist said she will talk to people and find out what is going to be the best way to go about this.... ugggg