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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 473267"><p>This sounds like it'll be a very ugly divorce. This is what I'd do. </p><p></p><p>Look up the state code on the internet and read it. Especially where it comes to visitation. I have found that what ever visitation is set up by the parents before the divorce during the separation is harder to undo.</p><p></p><p>Get the kids in therapy now. Because if he is emotionally abusive they are going to need it. He will probably use them to hurt your daughter. Or when the dust settles he won't want anything to do with them and they'll need help getting through that. </p><p></p><p>Get a very good lawyer even if it is expensive. The best are found by word of mouth. Talk to other lawyers, divorced people, court clerks, children's justice place, cps, ect... anywhere and everywhere you or others can think of. </p><p></p><p>Have you communication with him be through e-mail. Your daughters testimony (or that of her family) won't mean a thing to the courts but his e-mails will. Be very nice in these e-mails but at the same time try to get him to show his true colors. (Just don't look like that's what you are doing.)</p><p></p><p>She is going to need an enormous amount of support. If he had any decency he wouldn't be doing this right now. He must be truly awful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 473267"] This sounds like it'll be a very ugly divorce. This is what I'd do. Look up the state code on the internet and read it. Especially where it comes to visitation. I have found that what ever visitation is set up by the parents before the divorce during the separation is harder to undo. Get the kids in therapy now. Because if he is emotionally abusive they are going to need it. He will probably use them to hurt your daughter. Or when the dust settles he won't want anything to do with them and they'll need help getting through that. Get a very good lawyer even if it is expensive. The best are found by word of mouth. Talk to other lawyers, divorced people, court clerks, children's justice place, cps, ect... anywhere and everywhere you or others can think of. Have you communication with him be through e-mail. Your daughters testimony (or that of her family) won't mean a thing to the courts but his e-mails will. Be very nice in these e-mails but at the same time try to get him to show his true colors. (Just don't look like that's what you are doing.) She is going to need an enormous amount of support. If he had any decency he wouldn't be doing this right now. He must be truly awful. [/QUOTE]
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