OK...here's where we left off:
Good news/bad news--
Turns out that my son is GREAT at doing the dishes!! Dishes are clean, shiny, and safe to eat with (Yea!!!!) The kitchen looks wonderful...and I am SOOO happy to be done with the Wash-the-Dishes Battle every night.
on the other hand--now, you guessed it...the yard is going to H*** because difficult child is "too busy" to go out there and pick everything up. And just as we suspected--we caught her double-bagging the garbage.
Eh, what can ya do? At least now I can have a drink in a nice, clean glass...
--DaisyF
We tried the "negotiation method" figuring that maybe if she had more input, she would be more of a team player. She got assigned the dishes as her chore because she felt that yard work and taking out the trash were "boy chores" and she said that she wanted a "girl" chore. Fair enough.
Then she spent months playing these passive-aggressive games such as "losing" the sponges...emptying half the container of dish-soap onto the dishes so that we would be completely out of soap by the middle of every week....or running the sink full-blast until she was out of hot water and then couldn't wash dishes because there was no hot water left....or filling a sink with soapy water and then only "dipping" dishes into the water and putting them away {and then I'd find "clean" glasses in the cabinet with milk dribbles crusted down the insides or coffee cups with lipstick on the rim--FUN!!}.
We've gotten into the habit of washing everything before we use it....
So what can we do? How do you stop this passive-aggressive carp?
Now that her chore will be yard work, I suspect we will suddenly have a rash of broken or missing rakes--we'll be out of trash bags every-other-day--and we'll "forget" which night is garbage night....even if someone reminds us.
Good news/bad news--
Turns out that my son is GREAT at doing the dishes!! Dishes are clean, shiny, and safe to eat with (Yea!!!!) The kitchen looks wonderful...and I am SOOO happy to be done with the Wash-the-Dishes Battle every night.
on the other hand--now, you guessed it...the yard is going to H*** because difficult child is "too busy" to go out there and pick everything up. And just as we suspected--we caught her double-bagging the garbage.
Eh, what can ya do? At least now I can have a drink in a nice, clean glass...
--DaisyF