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Update: Relinquished son in jail AGAIN, daughter doing better...
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 229564" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We had adopted a child who was like your son only he was so clever we didn't know what he was doing until he had killed our second puppy (the first dog we thought somebody else killed). This child was such a good faker. He acted like the world's most loving child and adults adored him. He has severe Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It wouldn't shock me to see him on the news that he had killed somebody.</p><p>Because he had molested our two younger kids, we felt we had no choice but to put them before him and we promised them he'd never come back. And we relinquished our rights, and CPS didn't try to stop us or punish us in any way. We had loved this boy very much, but realized he was too sick to either love us back or to live in a family--heck, he's going to be a risk to society all of his life and I expect he'll end up in jail too. Sadly, adopting a child and loving him isn't enough for so many older kids--they have already become so hardened that they can't love back and are, in a way, child psychopaths. For your daughter's sake, if she is ever going to heal (not just from that incident but from her entire life) it is best that he isn't there. I know your mommy heart hurts and I'm really sorry.</p><p>Please understand you did the right thing. He may have molested your daughter more than you know and if he was acting out on neighborhood kids (I suspect my son had too) then YOU can be held accountable because he is underage. And he would have been removed from your home anyway. </p><p>My son liked us for the things that we gave him, never because he loved us. He was too far gone to love anyone. He has since admitted he's been molesting children and killing animals since he was five years old. </p><p>He's 18 now. I hope he never tracks us down because he is dangerous. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 229564, member: 1550"] We had adopted a child who was like your son only he was so clever we didn't know what he was doing until he had killed our second puppy (the first dog we thought somebody else killed). This child was such a good faker. He acted like the world's most loving child and adults adored him. He has severe Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It wouldn't shock me to see him on the news that he had killed somebody. Because he had molested our two younger kids, we felt we had no choice but to put them before him and we promised them he'd never come back. And we relinquished our rights, and CPS didn't try to stop us or punish us in any way. We had loved this boy very much, but realized he was too sick to either love us back or to live in a family--heck, he's going to be a risk to society all of his life and I expect he'll end up in jail too. Sadly, adopting a child and loving him isn't enough for so many older kids--they have already become so hardened that they can't love back and are, in a way, child psychopaths. For your daughter's sake, if she is ever going to heal (not just from that incident but from her entire life) it is best that he isn't there. I know your mommy heart hurts and I'm really sorry. Please understand you did the right thing. He may have molested your daughter more than you know and if he was acting out on neighborhood kids (I suspect my son had too) then YOU can be held accountable because he is underage. And he would have been removed from your home anyway. My son liked us for the things that we gave him, never because he loved us. He was too far gone to love anyone. He has since admitted he's been molesting children and killing animals since he was five years old. He's 18 now. I hope he never tracks us down because he is dangerous. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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