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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 762341" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear Helpless</p><p></p><p>That is insane. I am wondering if he misrepresented on the loan. But he doesn't look even 1/4 inch past the tip of his nose to consequences. I agree with you that his so-called plan is reckless. What can you do? He does exactly what he wants, and only that. He is so brilliant, confident, and full of himself he always seems to land on his feet. Until he doesn't. He is a natural born leader. I think the only thing to do is to pray his brain catches up to his personality. </p><p></p><p>Helpless, you have no place to stand in his life right now. You have to get yourself back into your own life. When you are stretched so thin worrying what he will or won't do, you lose your strength. This is untenable. He will work this out himself, on his own terms. There is no way to protect him. Either from himself or his consequences. I pray that you stop looking at his gmail and his social media. It only hurts and frightens you. He is an adult. Let him go, for now. That is what I think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 762341, member: 18958"] Dear Helpless That is insane. I am wondering if he misrepresented on the loan. But he doesn't look even 1/4 inch past the tip of his nose to consequences. I agree with you that his so-called plan is reckless. What can you do? He does exactly what he wants, and only that. He is so brilliant, confident, and full of himself he always seems to land on his feet. Until he doesn't. He is a natural born leader. I think the only thing to do is to pray his brain catches up to his personality. Helpless, you have no place to stand in his life right now. You have to get yourself back into your own life. When you are stretched so thin worrying what he will or won't do, you lose your strength. This is untenable. He will work this out himself, on his own terms. There is no way to protect him. Either from himself or his consequences. I pray that you stop looking at his gmail and his social media. It only hurts and frightens you. He is an adult. Let him go, for now. That is what I think. [/QUOTE]
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