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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 336054" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry. I must say that the plan you have is crazy. There is every reason for you to get a restraining order from her. You really NEED to do that. Gma and parents also NEED to do this. She WILL violate it and you should then call the police. Every time. </p><p></p><p>The ONLY way to deal with a sociopath is to get away and stay away. No calls, no letters, no phone calls, walk away if you see her in public.</p><p></p><p>If she gets tricky and gets a restraining order against you, that is fine. More reason for you not to be near her. </p><p></p><p>Change your locks. She WILL have a key after being left alone there. Make sure you are deadbolted, with windows locked. </p><p></p><p>If your parents will not see logic and get a restraining order, they are adults and that is their CHOICE. In time they will have to as she will get more and more abusive. Same for Gma.</p><p></p><p>SAVE YOURSELF NOW!!!!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Others here have dealt with similar. The ONLY way to handle it is 100% break from her. Period. Otherwise you will end up dead or crazy from the way she manipulates you - a mental breakdown is entirely probable.</p><p></p><p>Get a restraining order first thing Monday. I am sorry. If a restraining order is not possible, change your phone number and do not give it to her or your parents or grandparents. Have it blocked so it does not show when you call them. See a lawyer about what your options are. That is IMPORTANT.</p><p></p><p>You are an intelligent person and keeping your sister in your life is a stupid move, a scary, dangerous, stupid move. I hope you can take this advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 336054, member: 1233"] I am sorry. I must say that the plan you have is crazy. There is every reason for you to get a restraining order from her. You really NEED to do that. Gma and parents also NEED to do this. She WILL violate it and you should then call the police. Every time. The ONLY way to deal with a sociopath is to get away and stay away. No calls, no letters, no phone calls, walk away if you see her in public. If she gets tricky and gets a restraining order against you, that is fine. More reason for you not to be near her. Change your locks. She WILL have a key after being left alone there. Make sure you are deadbolted, with windows locked. If your parents will not see logic and get a restraining order, they are adults and that is their CHOICE. In time they will have to as she will get more and more abusive. Same for Gma. SAVE YOURSELF NOW!!!!!!!!! Others here have dealt with similar. The ONLY way to handle it is 100% break from her. Period. Otherwise you will end up dead or crazy from the way she manipulates you - a mental breakdown is entirely probable. Get a restraining order first thing Monday. I am sorry. If a restraining order is not possible, change your phone number and do not give it to her or your parents or grandparents. Have it blocked so it does not show when you call them. See a lawyer about what your options are. That is IMPORTANT. You are an intelligent person and keeping your sister in your life is a stupid move, a scary, dangerous, stupid move. I hope you can take this advice. [/QUOTE]
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