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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 682043" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Oooops, I didn't see the newest post before I replied. So he didn't get checked out. Make sure he watches for signs of concussion....</p><p>Lil, I am kinda on the fence and off on the electric bill. I see both sides, but must confess ( sorry Jabber) I am leaning towards helping the kid out. It's just that he has changed so much from the posts I read when I first found CD in September.</p><p>I am looking at my own situation and thinking I may have swung too far off the enabling pendulm to the other side of hard hearted. Built up a big old wall. Still reviewing and thinking on it.</p><p>We just do not have a simple answer. That's it, it is so hard to differentiate. What is a lesson and what is the straw that breaks the camels back and sends the kids over the edge? When do we say "I will help you" or "not my problem? " It is so hard to choose when the situation presents itself.........</p><p>Sorry, I rambling.......</p><p>I think I would pay it. But then again I went through 18 years of off and on enabling to no contact for six months, so I might just be completely out of my mind.........ugh</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 682043, member: 19522"] Oooops, I didn't see the newest post before I replied. So he didn't get checked out. Make sure he watches for signs of concussion.... Lil, I am kinda on the fence and off on the electric bill. I see both sides, but must confess ( sorry Jabber) I am leaning towards helping the kid out. It's just that he has changed so much from the posts I read when I first found CD in September. I am looking at my own situation and thinking I may have swung too far off the enabling pendulm to the other side of hard hearted. Built up a big old wall. Still reviewing and thinking on it. We just do not have a simple answer. That's it, it is so hard to differentiate. What is a lesson and what is the straw that breaks the camels back and sends the kids over the edge? When do we say "I will help you" or "not my problem? " It is so hard to choose when the situation presents itself......... Sorry, I rambling....... I think I would pay it. But then again I went through 18 years of off and on enabling to no contact for six months, so I might just be completely out of my mind.........ugh leafy [/QUOTE]
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