Well, I haven't been on in awhile and figured I would give you guys a quick rundown of what is going on here. difficult child 1 got out of the hospital and was NO better off then before. We had problem after problem for weeks. Finally at the hearing last Friday they told her she would have to move out and that she could temporarily stay with a friend until they could place her. Since then, she has decided that she wants to go back to TX and live with a family there. I talked to the Social Worker and they said that that would be ok. We are now waiting on the Parental Allocation to go through for the baby. (he will stay with us) I don't really know how I feel about all of this other than doubting my EVERY move. I know that Fostering or Residential Treatment Center (RTC) will do her no good because she isn't willing to give any! She can't live with me and she doesn't know a suitable family locally to stay with. Do you ever feel like you have just given up on them???? How much can you really do for them before they start doing for themselves?