First, I just wanted to let everyone know that DS's knee surgery went fine and he's doing great! We already see a big difference in the amount of swelling and pain in that joint. It's such a relief to see him feeling better. Thank you all for the well-wishes!
Second, we have a date scheduled at the end of January for difficult child's caseworker and docs to meet to draft a "Total Service Plan" to try and address difficult child's issues. This is also good news...
But I feel like it can't come soon enough!
It was another holiday break from school spent "walking on eggshells". difficult child had a couple of near-meltdowns over absolutely stupid little things. So of course, I didn't want to risk "pushing it" by G-d forbid, asking her to do a chore or anything that required the slightest bit of effort. Sheesh!!! And she still goes on and on about what horrible, abusive people we are.
Meanwhile, difficult child has not washed any undergarments in the past couple of months. She will take the occassional shower, and then must put the dirty clothing right back on.
So "Santa" brought her some new underpants for the holidays. OK, well...that was more than a week ago - and it looks like none of those need washing either. UGH! I just want to shake her!
At the same time, difficult child is now "in pursuit" of, I think, at least three different guys. And she's giving them the whole "O my parents are so abusive - I love you but we can't be together until you come and rescue me."
So that scares me, to think that some hormone-crazed teenaged boy with his Daddy's gun is gonna show up on my doorstep looking to "save" difficult child.
on the other hand - I think about the hygiene thing and difficult child arranging to have sex with these boys and I just cringe.
ARGH!!
Why does it always have to be so darn hard with these kids? Why can't she just put some small effort into doing the right thing...get a "normal" boyfriend-girlfriend relationship...and stop being so freaky all the time.
I suppose that's asking too much...
Second, we have a date scheduled at the end of January for difficult child's caseworker and docs to meet to draft a "Total Service Plan" to try and address difficult child's issues. This is also good news...
But I feel like it can't come soon enough!
It was another holiday break from school spent "walking on eggshells". difficult child had a couple of near-meltdowns over absolutely stupid little things. So of course, I didn't want to risk "pushing it" by G-d forbid, asking her to do a chore or anything that required the slightest bit of effort. Sheesh!!! And she still goes on and on about what horrible, abusive people we are.
Meanwhile, difficult child has not washed any undergarments in the past couple of months. She will take the occassional shower, and then must put the dirty clothing right back on.
So "Santa" brought her some new underpants for the holidays. OK, well...that was more than a week ago - and it looks like none of those need washing either. UGH! I just want to shake her!
At the same time, difficult child is now "in pursuit" of, I think, at least three different guys. And she's giving them the whole "O my parents are so abusive - I love you but we can't be together until you come and rescue me."
So that scares me, to think that some hormone-crazed teenaged boy with his Daddy's gun is gonna show up on my doorstep looking to "save" difficult child.
on the other hand - I think about the hygiene thing and difficult child arranging to have sex with these boys and I just cringe.
ARGH!!
Why does it always have to be so darn hard with these kids? Why can't she just put some small effort into doing the right thing...get a "normal" boyfriend-girlfriend relationship...and stop being so freaky all the time.
I suppose that's asking too much...