STRESSEDTOMAX
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Well...today has been a VERY good day here, comparatively speaking...LOL. As I've said, difficult child went to school today to give out his Valentines. He says he had a good day except for one thing that happened on the car line. Some kid in his class was bothering him under the guise of "kidding". So difficult child does what he always does - told the teacher. According to difficult child, they both went to the office, hashed things out, and everything's fine now. How in the world they found all this time when they were on the car line to begin with I have no clue nor do I really care. Bigger fish to fry...LOL.
One thing that has gotten me thinking, though, is that he got in the car and said that in the cafeteria he was hanging out with the "Autistic" kids. We have never actually sat him down and told him his diagnosis because, frankly, I've never been quite certain what it is. I am almost positive he is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) - Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) or Aspergers - that's his formal diagnosis - but we've never said that to him. I do however, think he knows he has what's called Aspergers but he's problem clueless as to what that actually means. Anyway...have any of you told your kids their diagnosis...if so when and how?
Also met the new therapist today - difficult child has first appointment Monday. I like her a lot and think she'll be a good fit. The only thing that bothered me - not about her but about the appointment in general - is that I was very honest with her about husband temper and how he reacts to difficult child's meltdowns. To talk about it and remember some incidences is painful and upsetting for me but I want all of us to get help - and this may be the first step to also getting husband help too.
So...all in all - really good day - hope I don't pay for it this 4 day weekend...