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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 615117" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Oh my..........Things are heating up now Cedar.............sending a prayer for all of you.........</p><p></p><p>I got temporary guardianship for my granddaughter because I wrote all of the paperwork and expressed my concern that my granddaughter was in danger, at minimum of neglect. I was told that would never happen, but in the court room when the judge read my words, he granted me temporary guardianship. I then applied for permanent. I wanted my daughter out of the picture because I thought she might take my choice to take my granddaughter out on her own daughter if she had access to her. </p><p></p><p>It is difficult to believe that there are NO exceptions to reunification in the state you are talking about. Unbelievable. </p><p></p><p>I felt disloyal too Cedar. But geez, there are children hanging in the balance here...........Within a short time, I got over that feeling and realized I did the right thing.<strong> You are doing the right thing too.</strong></p><p></p><p>The pictures were a game changer Cedar, now the BIG GUNS are coming out. She will threaten and try to do whatever she can to get you to come back.................hold on Cedar, this could get even more bumpy. If she is using needles and pills and alcohol, you are now engaged in a relationship with the drugs. Do not give in to them.</p><p></p><p>One thing that happens too Cedar is that all the suffering and pain that your daughter has brought to your doorstep is now in it's rightful place, on her doorstep. If she is ever going to choose LIFE over where she is, this will be the beginning of that choice. Stay strong. I'm glad you are seeing how she uses your feelings and guilt to get what she wants. It's an ugly, ugly realization for us parents, but Cedar, <u>it is the truth</u>.............and that is what will set you free from this nightmare................</p><p></p><p><u>Your daughter needs to now face the reality of the choices she has made..............the consequences............real life.</u></p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are going through this, but now you can see what is really happening here. Your granddaughter deserves a chance to have her life away from her mother.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 615117, member: 13542"] Oh my..........Things are heating up now Cedar.............sending a prayer for all of you......... I got temporary guardianship for my granddaughter because I wrote all of the paperwork and expressed my concern that my granddaughter was in danger, at minimum of neglect. I was told that would never happen, but in the court room when the judge read my words, he granted me temporary guardianship. I then applied for permanent. I wanted my daughter out of the picture because I thought she might take my choice to take my granddaughter out on her own daughter if she had access to her. It is difficult to believe that there are NO exceptions to reunification in the state you are talking about. Unbelievable. I felt disloyal too Cedar. But geez, there are children hanging in the balance here...........Within a short time, I got over that feeling and realized I did the right thing.[B] You are doing the right thing too.[/B] The pictures were a game changer Cedar, now the BIG GUNS are coming out. She will threaten and try to do whatever she can to get you to come back.................hold on Cedar, this could get even more bumpy. If she is using needles and pills and alcohol, you are now engaged in a relationship with the drugs. Do not give in to them. One thing that happens too Cedar is that all the suffering and pain that your daughter has brought to your doorstep is now in it's rightful place, on her doorstep. If she is ever going to choose LIFE over where she is, this will be the beginning of that choice. Stay strong. I'm glad you are seeing how she uses your feelings and guilt to get what she wants. It's an ugly, ugly realization for us parents, but Cedar, [U]it is the truth[/U].............and that is what will set you free from this nightmare................ [U]Your daughter needs to now face the reality of the choices she has made..............the consequences............real life.[/U] I am sorry you are going through this, but now you can see what is really happening here. Your granddaughter deserves a chance to have her life away from her mother. [/QUOTE]
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