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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 659506" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I understand this. Jabber and I have mentioned that we want to move. This house holds memories of good times with our son...but they are overshadowed by the ones of him screaming and shouting and putting his fist through the door and finding him stoned and on and on. Realistically, if we didn't want a smaller house (we just don't need four bedrooms, living room, family room, for the two of us) and more land so the neighbors are not on top of us, we probably wouldn't move for just that reason, but we've discussed as another reason that, if we're 30 minutes from town, he won't want to live with us or call asking for rides, etc. It's not a real "reason" for wanting to move...but it's a nice perk. The new house will be a place where his drama is not allowed. </p><p></p><p>So yes, protection. Distance is good. Keeping him from knowing where the house is, that keeps the distance. It sounds like he's making progress. Maybe someday things will progress to where you CAN loosen up those boundries. It's something to look forward to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 659506, member: 17309"] I understand this. Jabber and I have mentioned that we want to move. This house holds memories of good times with our son...but they are overshadowed by the ones of him screaming and shouting and putting his fist through the door and finding him stoned and on and on. Realistically, if we didn't want a smaller house (we just don't need four bedrooms, living room, family room, for the two of us) and more land so the neighbors are not on top of us, we probably wouldn't move for just that reason, but we've discussed as another reason that, if we're 30 minutes from town, he won't want to live with us or call asking for rides, etc. It's not a real "reason" for wanting to move...but it's a nice perk. The new house will be a place where his drama is not allowed. So yes, protection. Distance is good. Keeping him from knowing where the house is, that keeps the distance. It sounds like he's making progress. Maybe someday things will progress to where you CAN loosen up those boundries. It's something to look forward to. [/QUOTE]
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