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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 749309" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Thanks Tanya and KSM. I think they see that I am trying to help them but they have been through so much chaos, it’s like that is their “comfort zone.” It’s all they know, except for the times they have been with us, and favorite Aunts from their paternal side. It will take a lot of retraining to get them to stop escalating emotionally and acting out. The unanswered questions and what ifs are not helping either. I question the goal of reunification as well, what more proof do they need as to a parents fitness? </p><p>I have had a talk with my younger grandson this morning to find ways to cope rather than losing it like he did last night. The elder is going to be 15 soon and at 6 ft tall, pushes his weight around. I will talk with him again later.</p><p>All I know is that I am not physically capable of stopping him if he loses it. I have to monitor this and see where it goes. I will not have bullying, swearing and violence in my home. I know it is a scary time for all of them. I am praying that CWS figures something out so that we at least have some kind of plan. </p><p>You are right KSM, sometimes we have to do the hard things.</p><p>Leaf</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 749309, member: 19522"] Thanks Tanya and KSM. I think they see that I am trying to help them but they have been through so much chaos, it’s like that is their “comfort zone.” It’s all they know, except for the times they have been with us, and favorite Aunts from their paternal side. It will take a lot of retraining to get them to stop escalating emotionally and acting out. The unanswered questions and what ifs are not helping either. I question the goal of reunification as well, what more proof do they need as to a parents fitness? I have had a talk with my younger grandson this morning to find ways to cope rather than losing it like he did last night. The elder is going to be 15 soon and at 6 ft tall, pushes his weight around. I will talk with him again later. All I know is that I am not physically capable of stopping him if he loses it. I have to monitor this and see where it goes. I will not have bullying, swearing and violence in my home. I know it is a scary time for all of them. I am praying that CWS figures something out so that we at least have some kind of plan. You are right KSM, sometimes we have to do the hard things. Leaf [/QUOTE]
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