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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 109204" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Sounds as though he is going through withdrawals and doesn't like it. I'm sorry that you and his dad aren't communicating. That's how it is with me and L's dad. If he talked to <em>me</em>, he'd have to face the BS he's been dishing out the past 24 years. It's much easier for him to get advice from a girlfriend he's only known three weeks and never mentioned our story to. I <em>loved</em> the one who said "Wow, you two are so great, you get along so well for seperate parents!" Get your head out of your hoo-haw, honey, I gave up trying to talk to him years ago!</p><p></p><p>You have gotten good advice. Detach from him, and do what you can for the baby. I know that will be hard once he gets out. At this point it's not just you and him with his dad interfering, it's you and him and girlfriend and GD, and girlfriend's son, and dad. UGH! That's not a good juggling combination. Personally, I would not send him a phone card. Life <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> when you're a junkie in denial, I guess. Maybe he'll figure it out. Send him some stamps, maybe. Then he can't argue and manipulate.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 109204, member: 99"] Sounds as though he is going through withdrawals and doesn't like it. I'm sorry that you and his dad aren't communicating. That's how it is with me and L's dad. If he talked to [i]me[/i], he'd have to face the BS he's been dishing out the past 24 years. It's much easier for him to get advice from a girlfriend he's only known three weeks and never mentioned our story to. I [i]loved[/i] the one who said "Wow, you two are so great, you get along so well for seperate parents!" Get your head out of your hoo-haw, honey, I gave up trying to talk to him years ago! You have gotten good advice. Detach from him, and do what you can for the baby. I know that will be hard once he gets out. At this point it's not just you and him with his dad interfering, it's you and him and girlfriend and GD, and girlfriend's son, and dad. UGH! That's not a good juggling combination. Personally, I would not send him a phone card. Life :censored: when you're a junkie in denial, I guess. Maybe he'll figure it out. Send him some stamps, maybe. Then he can't argue and manipulate. [/QUOTE]
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