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<blockquote data-quote="ck1" data-source="post: 109947" data-attributes="member: 3767"><p>JMama: I don't have experience with this, but I do have a few thoughts. As I was reading your posts, I kept thinking to myself, "difficult child needs to get away from girlfriend when he gets out". He may not have used with her, but it sounds like she made him want to use! That has to be nearly as bad as hanging out with the same people you used with because the thoughts, desires, memories, are still there. If your instincts tell you that's probably what needs to happen, then you're probably right. Unfortnately, you may not be able to make that happen.</p><p></p><p>Also, this is just a thought so please forgive me if it's not a good one, but have you considered getting a formal court-order for visitation? I know she won't like that but that's her problem, not yours. If you have a court-order, then you'll get to see your granddaughter and not have to deal with girlfriend's drama. Plus, you'll have regular visits with granddaughter and always know how she's being taken care of.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ck1, post: 109947, member: 3767"] JMama: I don't have experience with this, but I do have a few thoughts. As I was reading your posts, I kept thinking to myself, "difficult child needs to get away from girlfriend when he gets out". He may not have used with her, but it sounds like she made him want to use! That has to be nearly as bad as hanging out with the same people you used with because the thoughts, desires, memories, are still there. If your instincts tell you that's probably what needs to happen, then you're probably right. Unfortnately, you may not be able to make that happen. Also, this is just a thought so please forgive me if it's not a good one, but have you considered getting a formal court-order for visitation? I know she won't like that but that's her problem, not yours. If you have a court-order, then you'll get to see your granddaughter and not have to deal with girlfriend's drama. Plus, you'll have regular visits with granddaughter and always know how she's being taken care of. [/QUOTE]
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