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updating daily-Day 10, my son, in 1st detox, ?'s
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<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 110015" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>Well you are right that difficult child needs to get away from her when he gets out, but he is so into his life with her that I dont see it happening. He is so involved. He doesn't realize it is for his own good. He also has a problem in his head that he is determined NOT to be a seperate parent, he wont live in another house than his child... of course he knows right away he cant live with her, but he is 100% going back. Me and his father were not together since he was 3 mos old, and difficult child says he will never do that. He needs to see sometimes it has to be that way.</p><p></p><p>I am sure I can court order visitation, BUT so far she is 100% letting me have the baby and enjoys her breaks. Her son is off with his father almost half the week all the time. I think at this point, I need to not rock that boat. Then I could lose her and difficult child and be alienated. She hasnt done anything bad to me at all. I just know she wont like me telling her what she needs to do to help difficult child, ie. stay away and that is gonna be a mess. I dont know how I am gonna work with her for difficult child and dg and not get caught up in her drama. I plan on making some decisions on dealing with that after xmas.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 110015, member: 4450"] Well you are right that difficult child needs to get away from her when he gets out, but he is so into his life with her that I dont see it happening. He is so involved. He doesn't realize it is for his own good. He also has a problem in his head that he is determined NOT to be a seperate parent, he wont live in another house than his child... of course he knows right away he cant live with her, but he is 100% going back. Me and his father were not together since he was 3 mos old, and difficult child says he will never do that. He needs to see sometimes it has to be that way. I am sure I can court order visitation, BUT so far she is 100% letting me have the baby and enjoys her breaks. Her son is off with his father almost half the week all the time. I think at this point, I need to not rock that boat. Then I could lose her and difficult child and be alienated. She hasnt done anything bad to me at all. I just know she wont like me telling her what she needs to do to help difficult child, ie. stay away and that is gonna be a mess. I dont know how I am gonna work with her for difficult child and dg and not get caught up in her drama. I plan on making some decisions on dealing with that after xmas. [/QUOTE]
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