Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
updating daily-Day 10, my son, in 1st detox, ?'s
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 110492" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>Christmas was no fun (see my "extended family post)</p><p></p><p>but is response to a post on their about difficult child calling girlfriend so much (free calls yesterday) and he has been calling her a couple times aday.</p><p></p><p>Oh and girlfriend did mention he said he only has 4.00 on his phone acct for her and what was he going to do becuz talking to her was the only thing getting him through this. She said although it was "ahh, how sweet" she said she felt he was calling too much and I told her I was thinking the same and that I was going to talk to her about it after xmas. She said she has been thinking about it all along. We agreed he needs to miss her and the baby and not know what is going on at home. So we will have to have that conversation and make a desicion and I am not looking forward to it with either of them. He may just turn to his father for more phone money? I dont know. If I wasstrong, I would ask her to stop talking to him and I could stop taking the calls too. That would make him insane though. And I do not know how that would work if I need to know what he is planning when/if he gets on Jan 15th... he talked about coming here, I do not want that unless he goes to residential place first and the judge may order that sort of thing. I don't know if I should be at court or not? I am sure girlfriend is going and difficult child said she is dropping the charges, but the DA will go with them I am sure. Not sure why she is dropping them??? And his father will go, and he doesn't talk to me at all, so difficult child can use us since one doesn't know what the other is doing. He is an enabler as is his wife.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 110492, member: 4450"] Christmas was no fun (see my "extended family post) but is response to a post on their about difficult child calling girlfriend so much (free calls yesterday) and he has been calling her a couple times aday. Oh and girlfriend did mention he said he only has 4.00 on his phone acct for her and what was he going to do becuz talking to her was the only thing getting him through this. She said although it was "ahh, how sweet" she said she felt he was calling too much and I told her I was thinking the same and that I was going to talk to her about it after xmas. She said she has been thinking about it all along. We agreed he needs to miss her and the baby and not know what is going on at home. So we will have to have that conversation and make a desicion and I am not looking forward to it with either of them. He may just turn to his father for more phone money? I dont know. If I wasstrong, I would ask her to stop talking to him and I could stop taking the calls too. That would make him insane though. And I do not know how that would work if I need to know what he is planning when/if he gets on Jan 15th... he talked about coming here, I do not want that unless he goes to residential place first and the judge may order that sort of thing. I don't know if I should be at court or not? I am sure girlfriend is going and difficult child said she is dropping the charges, but the DA will go with them I am sure. Not sure why she is dropping them??? And his father will go, and he doesn't talk to me at all, so difficult child can use us since one doesn't know what the other is doing. He is an enabler as is his wife. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
updating daily-Day 10, my son, in 1st detox, ?'s
Top