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<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 111151" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>Day 11</p><p></p><p>difficult child told girlfriend the other day that he thinks he will need to be "watched" when he gets out. He says he knows tempation will play a part in it all. She was saying him coming here would be good for him. I have the baby once a week overnight and he can see her then. He said he cant only see her once a week... I explained to her that he has to realize he ant jump into seeing them everyday right away. He "should" be busy with school and work and meetings and all. He has no car and she lives 45 mins from me. She agreed. I think he just isn't thinking of all that will be different when he comes out. But I think betwen her and us, we can get him to realize his life will be different that he thinks.</p><p></p><p>I missed difficult child's call but husband got it and talked to him for the first time while in there. They had a good convo about everything. I was glad because I know husband wants to help, but he is NOT a fool and wont put up with any junk from him. We dont know what will happen, where he will go when he gets out, but husband agreed to have a talk and decide if we are willing to take a chance of him coming here. If so, we will then sit down with girlfriend and get her on board to our expectations on difficult child and her.</p><p></p><p>I dunno, time will tell. But I am a firm believer in "failure to plan is planning to fail"!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 111151, member: 4450"] Day 11 difficult child told girlfriend the other day that he thinks he will need to be "watched" when he gets out. He says he knows tempation will play a part in it all. She was saying him coming here would be good for him. I have the baby once a week overnight and he can see her then. He said he cant only see her once a week... I explained to her that he has to realize he ant jump into seeing them everyday right away. He "should" be busy with school and work and meetings and all. He has no car and she lives 45 mins from me. She agreed. I think he just isn't thinking of all that will be different when he comes out. But I think betwen her and us, we can get him to realize his life will be different that he thinks. I missed difficult child's call but husband got it and talked to him for the first time while in there. They had a good convo about everything. I was glad because I know husband wants to help, but he is NOT a fool and wont put up with any junk from him. We dont know what will happen, where he will go when he gets out, but husband agreed to have a talk and decide if we are willing to take a chance of him coming here. If so, we will then sit down with girlfriend and get her on board to our expectations on difficult child and her. I dunno, time will tell. But I am a firm believer in "failure to plan is planning to fail"!!! [/QUOTE]
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