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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 182938" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I wouldn't put the onus on the child to call against her parents. She probably trusts nobody and is terrified they will blame her and get her in trouble. I usually agree with Marg, but not in this. Whether or not it's true or not isn't for you to figure out. Just call. THEY will figure it out. Your hub saw very disturbing behavior, it was not loving. At best, maybe true parenting classes, that the parents CAN'T just quit, will come out of it. At worst, you uncovered serious abuse and helped a child escape it. I wouldn't even think twice. I'd call. I'm pretty sure your therapist will also give you that advice. If this child came to her, she would HAVE to call, even if she had doubts. It's called mandatory reporting. We don't know if she has ADHD, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), bipolar, abuse issues from before her adoption, or ABCDEFG. All we know is there is at least some evidence that she is not treated well...CPS is called for lesser reasons than that. Do it! They will check into it thoroughly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 182938, member: 1550"] I wouldn't put the onus on the child to call against her parents. She probably trusts nobody and is terrified they will blame her and get her in trouble. I usually agree with Marg, but not in this. Whether or not it's true or not isn't for you to figure out. Just call. THEY will figure it out. Your hub saw very disturbing behavior, it was not loving. At best, maybe true parenting classes, that the parents CAN'T just quit, will come out of it. At worst, you uncovered serious abuse and helped a child escape it. I wouldn't even think twice. I'd call. I'm pretty sure your therapist will also give you that advice. If this child came to her, she would HAVE to call, even if she had doubts. It's called mandatory reporting. We don't know if she has ADHD, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), bipolar, abuse issues from before her adoption, or ABCDEFG. All we know is there is at least some evidence that she is not treated well...CPS is called for lesser reasons than that. Do it! They will check into it thoroughly. [/QUOTE]
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