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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 492752" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>So sorry for the outcome, but am not surprised by anything concerning the legal system. How long exactly is his probation? With Danny, the system was still putting in their two cents worth way past the time they were supposed to, and still talking out of both sides of their mouth. </p><p></p><p>Only thing I can suggest is keep the line of communication open between you and he - its important. Will he mess up? If he is anything like Danny, thats a strong possibility - every time he was set up for release, he would do something to sabatoge it. LOL You just have to keep the faith that it will dawn on him that being out of the system is better than being in the system - thats probably going to take some time - I know with Danny it seemed like forever before his emotional age came close to what his actual age was. Once you learn what the rules are, then you can work around them. Try and keep as upbeat and positive as you can and don't dwell on the past (or current) failings of the system. You need to stress to him that you both need to have these people out of your lives so you can move on with your lives so he needs to get his act together. </p><p></p><p>Too bad you don't live in Ca. We have a severe problem with prison overcrowding and they just don't have the money or room to keep people in jail, or even keep track of them once they are in the system. </p><p></p><p>Will keep my fingers crossed for the both of you.</p><p></p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 492752, member: 47"] So sorry for the outcome, but am not surprised by anything concerning the legal system. How long exactly is his probation? With Danny, the system was still putting in their two cents worth way past the time they were supposed to, and still talking out of both sides of their mouth. Only thing I can suggest is keep the line of communication open between you and he - its important. Will he mess up? If he is anything like Danny, thats a strong possibility - every time he was set up for release, he would do something to sabatoge it. LOL You just have to keep the faith that it will dawn on him that being out of the system is better than being in the system - thats probably going to take some time - I know with Danny it seemed like forever before his emotional age came close to what his actual age was. Once you learn what the rules are, then you can work around them. Try and keep as upbeat and positive as you can and don't dwell on the past (or current) failings of the system. You need to stress to him that you both need to have these people out of your lives so you can move on with your lives so he needs to get his act together. Too bad you don't live in Ca. We have a severe problem with prison overcrowding and they just don't have the money or room to keep people in jail, or even keep track of them once they are in the system. Will keep my fingers crossed for the both of you. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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