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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 376557" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Hugs, CM, I'm so sorry that you're living through this. This was not a whine/vent - you have legitimate concerns and matters that you're dealing with!</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">My exh, too, was similar to this. He'd go rescue a friend out of a ditch at 3 AM but wouldn't come with me to the hospital when difficult child was 5 weeks old and stopped breathing. He would blow all his money buying, coincidentally, blow, so he could treat his friends to a good time while I was walking to the church pantry so I could feed our two little girls. I could go on but...you get the idea. Everyone would tell me what a swell guy he was...yeah, swell, at whose expense?</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">I think you need to consider saving yourself. In the short term it's difficult to make the necessary changes, but in the long term, it is well worth the effort to care for yourself and your children first rather than wait around for H to 'get it'. I'm all about self preservation~ </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 376557, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Hugs, CM, I'm so sorry that you're living through this. This was not a whine/vent - you have legitimate concerns and matters that you're dealing with![/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]My exh, too, was similar to this. He'd go rescue a friend out of a ditch at 3 AM but wouldn't come with me to the hospital when difficult child was 5 weeks old and stopped breathing. He would blow all his money buying, coincidentally, blow, so he could treat his friends to a good time while I was walking to the church pantry so I could feed our two little girls. I could go on but...you get the idea. Everyone would tell me what a swell guy he was...yeah, swell, at whose expense?[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]I think you need to consider saving yourself. In the short term it's difficult to make the necessary changes, but in the long term, it is well worth the effort to care for yourself and your children first rather than wait around for H to 'get it'. I'm all about self preservation~ [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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