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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 376581" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>Hearts, I do have a therapist I have been working with and I plan on calling her today and seeing if I can get in. I just spoke with husband, and now he wants to work it out. I told him I did not know if we know how, we are so entrenched in old bad habits. I had mentioned marriage counseling before, and he brought it up again. Will I try it? I don't know. How do you not try to save a relationship of 18yrs? I will probably try it if he is willing and if he is willing to actually work at it, but I cannot know that untill I actually see him try.</p><p> </p><p>I know if we were to split up, I could make it. I work, have been the only one to work for years. He has not been able to work, through no fault of his own, due to his pain and BiPolar (BP). I do not fault him that. But he can do things around the house to make my life easier and I have not seen him do that for a very long time. I have been the one to do all the house stuff, take the kids to appts or make sure they get there, go to work, pay the bills and I think it is time he do a few of these things. </p><p> </p><p>Right now? I don't want to make a decision, I don't make good decisions when I do so quickly and out of anger and frustration.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 376581, member: 3184"] Hearts, I do have a therapist I have been working with and I plan on calling her today and seeing if I can get in. I just spoke with husband, and now he wants to work it out. I told him I did not know if we know how, we are so entrenched in old bad habits. I had mentioned marriage counseling before, and he brought it up again. Will I try it? I don't know. How do you not try to save a relationship of 18yrs? I will probably try it if he is willing and if he is willing to actually work at it, but I cannot know that untill I actually see him try. I know if we were to split up, I could make it. I work, have been the only one to work for years. He has not been able to work, through no fault of his own, due to his pain and BiPolar (BP). I do not fault him that. But he can do things around the house to make my life easier and I have not seen him do that for a very long time. I have been the one to do all the house stuff, take the kids to appts or make sure they get there, go to work, pay the bills and I think it is time he do a few of these things. Right now? I don't want to make a decision, I don't make good decisions when I do so quickly and out of anger and frustration. [/QUOTE]
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