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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 255121" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry. If we still lived in Cincy I would find a way to help out. Is it time to insist that husband start visiting his mother daily or would that just add to your burden? Maybe you should thank easy child for the things you are going to dump on her? Whatever happens, remember that SOMEONE has to have all the stuff you do for mother in law written down in case something happens and YOU get sick. You seem to be the ONLY one who is "in charge" of stuff for her.</p><p></p><p>With her house, seeing as mother in law is 95 and in frail health, would a reverse mortgage be something to consider? Not sure if you know about them, but as I understand it you get a monthly payment that should many things, still get to live in the house until you die, and then on your death the lender pays off the balance and owns the home. Or something like that. I may have some of the details wrong. But I know it is supposed to help take the burden of the house off of you (upkeep and such) and still let you live there until your death. If mother in law is ever healthy enough to return home she could. And teh family could take whatever time in getting things ready rather than a rush to sell it now to fund a nursing home or whatever.</p><p></p><p>Vent anytime, sweetie.</p><p></p><p>If you are ANYWHERE near that vet's address I sent you, let me know. PLEASE let me know. He was in Mt. Orab or Williamsburg. Just a PM is fine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 255121, member: 1233"] I am sorry. If we still lived in Cincy I would find a way to help out. Is it time to insist that husband start visiting his mother daily or would that just add to your burden? Maybe you should thank easy child for the things you are going to dump on her? Whatever happens, remember that SOMEONE has to have all the stuff you do for mother in law written down in case something happens and YOU get sick. You seem to be the ONLY one who is "in charge" of stuff for her. With her house, seeing as mother in law is 95 and in frail health, would a reverse mortgage be something to consider? Not sure if you know about them, but as I understand it you get a monthly payment that should many things, still get to live in the house until you die, and then on your death the lender pays off the balance and owns the home. Or something like that. I may have some of the details wrong. But I know it is supposed to help take the burden of the house off of you (upkeep and such) and still let you live there until your death. If mother in law is ever healthy enough to return home she could. And teh family could take whatever time in getting things ready rather than a rush to sell it now to fund a nursing home or whatever. Vent anytime, sweetie. If you are ANYWHERE near that vet's address I sent you, let me know. PLEASE let me know. He was in Mt. Orab or Williamsburg. Just a PM is fine. [/QUOTE]
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