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Alright, I know its been a while since I've logged on, but trying to do everything seems to have gotten into the way of online time. For that I do apologize.
Anywho, difficult child 2 just turned 3. I was so excited! It meant he could go to the NP and get checked out and we could get him into the same therapies as difficult child 1 and get him back on track.... NOPE. Stupid NP has recently changed their policy to only accepting kids age 5 and older. That will not help me get him on track. It's only going to make him worse. So now I have to go through and start calling the next major city (5 hour drive one way) to see who is available, and when they can get him in, IF they take 3 year olds... and husband.... If I don't smack him before this is through, it'll be a miracle. husband... his response, well I guess he doesn't need to be seen by a NP then.... GRRRRRrr makes me so damn angry! Course he also doesn't believe difficult child 1 has an issue, so WHY would I expect ANY support with difficult child 2??!?!?!?!? I mean, difficult child 1 is doing great. He's catching up, not acting out so bad, etc. BUT that WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED UNLESS I GOT HIM THE HELP THAT HE NEEDED!!!! and husband still doesn't think that there IS a problem!!!!
So it's up to me again. Plus I have to get difficult child 1's IEP changed for the upcoming school year, and I now have a friend offering me some GREAT advice. She has a 15 yr old with AD/HD and he's not on any medication and doing well. So at least I can complain to you guys and my friend if need be. Just sucks that husband won't be there...
So end of vent for now. At least until the next complaint comes up. Of which, I'm sure there will be plenty if this is just starting out this way, and this is the way it's going....
Anywho, difficult child 2 just turned 3. I was so excited! It meant he could go to the NP and get checked out and we could get him into the same therapies as difficult child 1 and get him back on track.... NOPE. Stupid NP has recently changed their policy to only accepting kids age 5 and older. That will not help me get him on track. It's only going to make him worse. So now I have to go through and start calling the next major city (5 hour drive one way) to see who is available, and when they can get him in, IF they take 3 year olds... and husband.... If I don't smack him before this is through, it'll be a miracle. husband... his response, well I guess he doesn't need to be seen by a NP then.... GRRRRRrr makes me so damn angry! Course he also doesn't believe difficult child 1 has an issue, so WHY would I expect ANY support with difficult child 2??!?!?!?!? I mean, difficult child 1 is doing great. He's catching up, not acting out so bad, etc. BUT that WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED UNLESS I GOT HIM THE HELP THAT HE NEEDED!!!! and husband still doesn't think that there IS a problem!!!!
So it's up to me again. Plus I have to get difficult child 1's IEP changed for the upcoming school year, and I now have a friend offering me some GREAT advice. She has a 15 yr old with AD/HD and he's not on any medication and doing well. So at least I can complain to you guys and my friend if need be. Just sucks that husband won't be there...
So end of vent for now. At least until the next complaint comes up. Of which, I'm sure there will be plenty if this is just starting out this way, and this is the way it's going....