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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 569624" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Dear CB, in my humble opinion, your most pressing problem right now isn't your meddling mom (and yes, as Buddy say, you need to decide if you want her to meddle or not), your ex (who seems to a real price, I admit), getting your difficult child to school (while that is also important), but that you are a single mother of a difficult child who is bigger and stronger than you and who is behaving violent and threatening manner. That is something you have to put stop from beginning. That is something she can not get away, ever. It is a safety issue and you really don't want to teach her it is okay to get violent with you.</p><p></p><p>I'm a mother of two sons who are bigger than I, have been some time now. And while I'm tall and rather strong woman, my difficult child towers me and even easy child is several inches taller than I. And I wouldn't have a snowball's chance in fight with them, haven't had in years. So I have made it very, very clear that they are not going to get physically aggressive with me, they are not going to try to intimidate me with their size or to come to my space. That is one of very few zero tolerance rules in this house. They are allowed to be angry with me, to yell, I'm not even going to loose my sleep over rude insults, but any kind of physical intimidating or aggressiveness is absolutely out of question.</p><p></p><p>Don't let your difficult child get physical with you. That is a point there you call 911 without questions, immediately. Don't let her get away with that, ever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 569624, member: 14557"] Dear CB, in my humble opinion, your most pressing problem right now isn't your meddling mom (and yes, as Buddy say, you need to decide if you want her to meddle or not), your ex (who seems to a real price, I admit), getting your difficult child to school (while that is also important), but that you are a single mother of a difficult child who is bigger and stronger than you and who is behaving violent and threatening manner. That is something you have to put stop from beginning. That is something she can not get away, ever. It is a safety issue and you really don't want to teach her it is okay to get violent with you. I'm a mother of two sons who are bigger than I, have been some time now. And while I'm tall and rather strong woman, my difficult child towers me and even easy child is several inches taller than I. And I wouldn't have a snowball's chance in fight with them, haven't had in years. So I have made it very, very clear that they are not going to get physically aggressive with me, they are not going to try to intimidate me with their size or to come to my space. That is one of very few zero tolerance rules in this house. They are allowed to be angry with me, to yell, I'm not even going to loose my sleep over rude insults, but any kind of physical intimidating or aggressiveness is absolutely out of question. Don't let your difficult child get physical with you. That is a point there you call 911 without questions, immediately. Don't let her get away with that, ever. [/QUOTE]
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