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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 630818" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi and welcome.</p><p></p><p>As you know, hon, you can't control your daughter. If your daughter abuses or neglects your granddaughter you can call CPS and even call a lawyer to see if you have a shot at custody. Is your daughter a drug abuser? </p><p></p><p>At any rate, I would not keep taking care of a 29 year old woman. It is a very sad fact that often they hold their children over our heads to control us, but legally, unless you go to court and win custody, which is rare, they can do that and you have no choice but to move on with your life and let this meanspirited daughter take care of herself. I would not want her living with me, if I were you. Bet that if she had to move out, she'd get sick and tired of taking care of your granddaughter and you'd end up having her most of the time anyway.</p><p></p><p>At some point in time, if you don't please your daughter she is apt to pull your grand out of your life anyway, at least until she can't stand taking care of her anymore, which is probable. </p><p></p><p>I don't envy you. You are in a sad situation. LIke LucyJ, I think if you share more with us, we can be of more help to you, regarding suggestions.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting grandmommy heart. Let us know more and do get help for your depression. YOU matter and you need to be the best you you can be. And you deserve a good life, regardless of the situation with your daughter and your granddaughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 630818, member: 1550"] Hi and welcome. As you know, hon, you can't control your daughter. If your daughter abuses or neglects your granddaughter you can call CPS and even call a lawyer to see if you have a shot at custody. Is your daughter a drug abuser? At any rate, I would not keep taking care of a 29 year old woman. It is a very sad fact that often they hold their children over our heads to control us, but legally, unless you go to court and win custody, which is rare, they can do that and you have no choice but to move on with your life and let this meanspirited daughter take care of herself. I would not want her living with me, if I were you. Bet that if she had to move out, she'd get sick and tired of taking care of your granddaughter and you'd end up having her most of the time anyway. At some point in time, if you don't please your daughter she is apt to pull your grand out of your life anyway, at least until she can't stand taking care of her anymore, which is probable. I don't envy you. You are in a sad situation. LIke LucyJ, I think if you share more with us, we can be of more help to you, regarding suggestions. Hugs for your hurting grandmommy heart. Let us know more and do get help for your depression. YOU matter and you need to be the best you you can be. And you deserve a good life, regardless of the situation with your daughter and your granddaughter. [/QUOTE]
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