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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 630881" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>LynnyLou, I did not mean your daughter would abuse your daughter. I am thinking of all those men who come in and out and the high rate (one in four children) who are sexually abused. Your daughter is very risky with her daughter's well being. She would not necessarily know if the men were hurting the baby.Since this has happened in my family, it is always on my mind when women bring live-ins home, especially a slew of them. Maybe she hasn't thought about it. She may ignore you, but it wouldn't hurt to bring up the possibility to her. It just isn't safe.Again, though, there is not much you can do about it...I'm really sorry for you and your granddaughter.</p><p></p><p>RE is right. At this point in time, since you are powerless over your daughter's behavior, it is time to admit that to yourself and to focus on your own recovery to this situation. You are making yourself sick over this and yet nothing has changed except your own health, probably both mental and physical. You need to learn to cope with it and live your own life so that you can be here a long time for your other loved ones and for your own self too. I hope you do seek good counseling. *Hugs*</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 630881, member: 1550"] LynnyLou, I did not mean your daughter would abuse your daughter. I am thinking of all those men who come in and out and the high rate (one in four children) who are sexually abused. Your daughter is very risky with her daughter's well being. She would not necessarily know if the men were hurting the baby.Since this has happened in my family, it is always on my mind when women bring live-ins home, especially a slew of them. Maybe she hasn't thought about it. She may ignore you, but it wouldn't hurt to bring up the possibility to her. It just isn't safe.Again, though, there is not much you can do about it...I'm really sorry for you and your granddaughter. RE is right. At this point in time, since you are powerless over your daughter's behavior, it is time to admit that to yourself and to focus on your own recovery to this situation. You are making yourself sick over this and yet nothing has changed except your own health, probably both mental and physical. You need to learn to cope with it and live your own life so that you can be here a long time for your other loved ones and for your own self too. I hope you do seek good counseling. *Hugs* [/QUOTE]
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