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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 176340" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry easy child wasn't open with you then, but that is NOT uncommon (personal experience - the perp tells you that you won't be believed). It is important NOW to get easy child some help dealing with this. No matter what he says or thinks, it WILL have a big effect on his life.</p><p> </p><p>It is time to either cut difficult child out of your life or report him (and cut him out of your life). This is important for ALL your kids. If you keep contact with him after you learn he molested your easy child years ago, it sends the message to easy child that easy child doesn't matter. I know.</p><p> </p><p>My mother in law works with "lifers" - prisoners in max security who will NOT ever be released. She works with a program called reality therapy or choice therapy. These lifers learn to counsel other inmates - so that the other inmates can go and have productive lives outside prison. they take murderers, armed robbers, all the big-time criminals in this program.</p><p> </p><p>They do NOT take anyone with sexual abuse crimes. Why? because those who perp sex abuse have less than 5&#37; chance that they WILL actually turn their lives around. They go out and perp again and again, esp those who perp against kids. This % is probably high, almost ALL sex crime perps go out and do it over and over again. </p><p> </p><p>this is why YOU need to take action to protect ALL your kids, no matter their ages. </p><p> </p><p>I am sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 176340, member: 1233"] I am sorry easy child wasn't open with you then, but that is NOT uncommon (personal experience - the perp tells you that you won't be believed). It is important NOW to get easy child some help dealing with this. No matter what he says or thinks, it WILL have a big effect on his life. It is time to either cut difficult child out of your life or report him (and cut him out of your life). This is important for ALL your kids. If you keep contact with him after you learn he molested your easy child years ago, it sends the message to easy child that easy child doesn't matter. I know. My mother in law works with "lifers" - prisoners in max security who will NOT ever be released. She works with a program called reality therapy or choice therapy. These lifers learn to counsel other inmates - so that the other inmates can go and have productive lives outside prison. they take murderers, armed robbers, all the big-time criminals in this program. They do NOT take anyone with sexual abuse crimes. Why? because those who perp sex abuse have less than 5% chance that they WILL actually turn their lives around. They go out and perp again and again, esp those who perp against kids. This % is probably high, almost ALL sex crime perps go out and do it over and over again. this is why YOU need to take action to protect ALL your kids, no matter their ages. I am sorry. [/QUOTE]
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