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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 176504" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We adopted an 11 year old boy, who perped on my younger two (also adopted) for three years. As soon as we found out, he was gone and then he was prosecuted in court for "sexually assaulting a minor." We never thought to initiate actual charges against a 13 year old, but the county did it. My little guys got to see justice done, which is why I think both are doing so well today. They also had tons of therapy. Victims rarely talk about what happened--they tend to feel ashamed--and it DOES affect their lives greatly if it isn't dealt with aggressively. in my opinion you need to stick up to easy child in a major way. I wouldn't let difficult child in the house again for any reason. And I was also told by our 11 years old (13 at the time that he was caught) abuse officer (who had been in the business for 15 years) that they are always a threat, especially those who are serial offenders, and you don't know how bad it was or how many difficult child perped on. This is somebody who writing about "little kid" fantasies. Assume he not only did stuff to your easy child, but to other children. Unfortunately, kids are not forthcoming about abuse and perps lie about it. (((Hugs))) good luck. I know first hand how hard it is. But don't minimize the possibilities, for everyone's sake.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 176504, member: 1550"] We adopted an 11 year old boy, who perped on my younger two (also adopted) for three years. As soon as we found out, he was gone and then he was prosecuted in court for "sexually assaulting a minor." We never thought to initiate actual charges against a 13 year old, but the county did it. My little guys got to see justice done, which is why I think both are doing so well today. They also had tons of therapy. Victims rarely talk about what happened--they tend to feel ashamed--and it DOES affect their lives greatly if it isn't dealt with aggressively. in my opinion you need to stick up to easy child in a major way. I wouldn't let difficult child in the house again for any reason. And I was also told by our 11 years old (13 at the time that he was caught) abuse officer (who had been in the business for 15 years) that they are always a threat, especially those who are serial offenders, and you don't know how bad it was or how many difficult child perped on. This is somebody who writing about "little kid" fantasies. Assume he not only did stuff to your easy child, but to other children. Unfortunately, kids are not forthcoming about abuse and perps lie about it. (((Hugs))) good luck. I know first hand how hard it is. But don't minimize the possibilities, for everyone's sake. [/QUOTE]
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