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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 258313" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>JLady--</p><p> </p><p>This does not sound like a "church" issue at all--that just happened to be the building you were standing in when this occurred. This sounds like a man with a general lack of patience is telling you that he has no idea how to work with your child and no motivation to <em>learn</em> how to work with your child. Clearly, this man is not vested in the happiness and well-being of your family.</p><p> </p><p>So---why would it be important to expose difficult child to a person with this sort of attitude week after week after week? It can't be a positive experience for difficult child. And if it is not a positive experience for one member of your family....how can it be a postive experience for <em>any</em> member of your family?</p><p> </p><p>If this were a boy scout troup, or a neighborhood club, or even a classroom--you would not tolerate this treatment for one moment and you would pull difficult child from the program and find someplace that was a better "fit". </p><p> </p><p>I am sure that there are plenty of churches in your area that would be thrilled to welcome your whole family. Youth leaders are always needed and always appreciated. You and your child can help educate others about difficult children and their struggles and the lessons you have learned--and I'm sure that you will find many folks who would be grateful to learn from your life expereince.</p><p> </p><p>Perhaps this is a sign....?</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyF</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 258313, member: 6546"] JLady-- This does not sound like a "church" issue at all--that just happened to be the building you were standing in when this occurred. This sounds like a man with a general lack of patience is telling you that he has no idea how to work with your child and no motivation to [I]learn[/I] how to work with your child. Clearly, this man is not vested in the happiness and well-being of your family. So---why would it be important to expose difficult child to a person with this sort of attitude week after week after week? It can't be a positive experience for difficult child. And if it is not a positive experience for one member of your family....how can it be a postive experience for [I]any[/I] member of your family? If this were a boy scout troup, or a neighborhood club, or even a classroom--you would not tolerate this treatment for one moment and you would pull difficult child from the program and find someplace that was a better "fit". I am sure that there are plenty of churches in your area that would be thrilled to welcome your whole family. Youth leaders are always needed and always appreciated. You and your child can help educate others about difficult children and their struggles and the lessons you have learned--and I'm sure that you will find many folks who would be grateful to learn from your life expereince. Perhaps this is a sign....? --DaisyF [/QUOTE]
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