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Victimhood / Martyrdom vs Boundaries
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 636840" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>So the other piece of this is that, had I been honest with my son the second his conversations with us began to shift back into old patterns, the situation that now exists would never have happened. </p><p></p><p>There is comfort in those old enabling patterns, a slightly elevated sense of self, as I form responses that feel right, based on the feeling state of the relationship I want -- which ties in to Recovering's observation about the kind of mother I want to believe myself to be.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 636840, member: 17461"] So the other piece of this is that, had I been honest with my son the second his conversations with us began to shift back into old patterns, the situation that now exists would never have happened. There is comfort in those old enabling patterns, a slightly elevated sense of self, as I form responses that feel right, based on the feeling state of the relationship I want -- which ties in to Recovering's observation about the kind of mother I want to believe myself to be. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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