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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 636855" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>So...looks like I am still beating myself up, here. That part of me judges accurately but very, very harshly. </p><p></p><p>In that sense, in the shaming that goes with the accuracy of the assessment (which is necessary to healing the vulnerability) I taste the feeling state of my abuser.</p><p></p><p>And I remember my spoken intention for this year to be kinder to myself.</p><p></p><p>Progress.</p><p></p><p>Real progress, in opening and healing and kindness to myself.</p><p></p><p>There is such deep sorrow, along with a wakening compassion for all I have been through, for my courage in looking it square in the eye, and really, my bravery in trusting myself enough to come through it at all.</p><p></p><p>Thanks, everyone. </p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 636855, member: 17461"] So...looks like I am still beating myself up, here. That part of me judges accurately but very, very harshly. In that sense, in the shaming that goes with the accuracy of the assessment (which is necessary to healing the vulnerability) I taste the feeling state of my abuser. And I remember my spoken intention for this year to be kinder to myself. Progress. Real progress, in opening and healing and kindness to myself. There is such deep sorrow, along with a wakening compassion for all I have been through, for my courage in looking it square in the eye, and really, my bravery in trusting myself enough to come through it at all. Thanks, everyone. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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