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Victimhood / Martyrdom vs Boundaries
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 636859" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Oh, I hope you stop that soon, it makes me sad. You don't deserve it. It occurs to me that you are abusing yourself now. You are punishing yourself for real and imagined wrong doings with your kids. Hey, cut it out!! Stop those thoughts! Stop that runaway train of persecuting yourself.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>You have been through so much Cedar. So much. And you have massive amounts of courage and bravery. I believe that the deep sorrow is the final post, when we move through the sorrow, when we grieve all the losses, when we acknowledge it, express it and allow it, it releases us into our own authenticity.............then like that story of the Velveteen Rabbit, we become real. </p><p></p><p>Sending you lots of love Cedar.........be very, very kind to yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 636859, member: 13542"] Oh, I hope you stop that soon, it makes me sad. You don't deserve it. It occurs to me that you are abusing yourself now. You are punishing yourself for real and imagined wrong doings with your kids. Hey, cut it out!! Stop those thoughts! Stop that runaway train of persecuting yourself. You have been through so much Cedar. So much. And you have massive amounts of courage and bravery. I believe that the deep sorrow is the final post, when we move through the sorrow, when we grieve all the losses, when we acknowledge it, express it and allow it, it releases us into our own authenticity.............then like that story of the Velveteen Rabbit, we become real. Sending you lots of love Cedar.........be very, very kind to yourself. [/QUOTE]
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